from what i c is, ur dad really influences you a lot, even can 左右 ur judgement.

maybe ur dad wants you to choose a richer and smarter girl as wife / gf.

giving her money, cards or roses doesnt represent you r accompanying her.

normally guys sure bang into the girls even the girls doesnt show any signal. ur case really.. good! haha.

from ur stand: scare she loves ur money onli. diff background. u r ambitious than her.

from her side: doesnt care as long as u give her some satisfaction in $. too dependent.

is yee sai zou or not, now talking about this is still far, winner.

it seems suffer if any girl becomes ur loved one.

u have ur pride and trainnned to be a winner at all times. cant accept any single risk or loss. i bet ur dad faced some major loss or anything previouslyt, so now he tried to train u become a perfect man and not to repeat ur dad's mistake or weakness. Frankly speaking, this kind of attitude will suffer those around you and yourself.

mostly businessman in the end also marry Miss World, Top Model or watsoever who can dressed up nicely, perform polite in public and can behaves good in everything.

门当户对 is the marriage life you want? or not so pushover to ur loved one next time would be best. if u r perfect, then you cant force anyone to be as perfect as u r. the stress in u not lesser than ur loved one i can say.

u know u r selfish, arrogant, etc... but what is ur step to change urself? or u will still keep remain the same person as u r till u find someone can understand u and do watever u want and become a perfect person like u.

just advice, what comes around, goes around. life is short, enjoy it and not restrict urself in every single little thing u in. u wouldnt want ur son to become the person in ur shoes now as well.

he is an obedient boy, how can u just ask him to step out from his dad in no time. he wont accpet and do it, i bet u RM 1K. haha...

actually the stress is coming from themselve. we also same with them no matter we rich or poor!

i am ms. haha.

u sounds like challenging him! hehe. he is already poisoned too deep. takes time to recover.

i think TS is 死板板 person. must concentrate and finish one task at a time. like me... very kesian de. he wants to achieve the goal and want multitasking but when he does one thing he will temp ignore others first till the first thing done and approved by others, then onli can proceed the next.

hi. nice to know ya too. i definitely not that old. i am younger than u.

haha. i am not lovely as the GF. hard to cure. hard to say anything from one side story we heard and we were not involve in the things happened.

hehe. u mentioned it :"i had already moved out at the age of 25 because i disagreed with my parents...it's peace for all...."

i am quite new in here too.

translate which 1? 死板板？ it means like ppl say ‘kayu’ aka bookworm? (doing things follow rules onli. example, ppl ask he/she start with A, then do B, then C and so on. When he or she stucked in B, he or she doesnt know how to change other route or solution, no matter how must do B before going to C.)

yes. it is same.

TS aka Tread Starter.

Chilled la all of the TFs here. what is the point of arguing when TS doesnt asking for solution or anything. he just want to 发泄 in this post.

he should know what is the problem and solution himself. no one can help to clean the mess, onli him. we just advise what is in our mind. to take into consideration or not, it all depends on the TS.

no point arguing who's right or wrong here.

as the fella said, wait for new news come onli discuss further.

have a nice day! cheers~