I think wat matter most is someone's heart, not look. BTW, skin bleaching is harmful to skin in long run. Try Shiseido or Kose product for whitening. Its a bit expensive but work wonders. My mum used to look a bit malay too but she got fairer after using the products. I never know coz i got very fair skin, so i never dare to try all those whitening ones. Beaute de kose white succeed range cost about RM500 but very good (according to my mum). U can look for it at metrojaya or parkson. They have special counters.