Sigh sadness, why did you marry him? Unless he's addicted to drugs only after marriage. Now that you've got the baby, it becomes even harder to leave.

Soft approach is not gonna work. I doubt he'll change. And if you're to divorce, I wonder what are your chances to re-marry, unless you're super rich, which I doubt cuz he wouldn't need to borrow money from friends.

I would suggest you use the hard approach. Report him to police and force him into rehab. At least he knows you will take action and hope with this bad experience he will change. Hopefully after a few years of sacrifice, he will change and give a better future for the baby.

If you don't do that, then I would say the next best step is to divorce him. Chances are, you might be a single mum for life, but it would be better than staying on with him. Addicted to drug will lead on to greater problems such as robbing, stealing, gambling, ah-long, wife-beating, violence, and perhaps even... suicide. Do you really want all that? And worst of all, do you really want your kid to grow up in a screwed-up environment? So I suggest you leave him. I know love will make you think 'oh it's okay to stay on', but guess what, it's NOT OK! You can survive without him.