For your child's sake you should consider divorce. Simply because the bad nature of the father is not healthy for the child's upbringing. Remember that the decisions you make affect both your child and yourself. How would you feel if you had to go to school and teacher asked "What does your father do?". I'd gladly accept that I have no father as opposed to one who is a druggie.

Ultimately, the choice is up to you. An irresponsible father will never be part of a healthy family, therefore unless and until your husband proves he can give up on his addiction and get a respectable job to feed the family, your child might not live the life he should be living. Take the utmost care in bringing him up, let him learn music, let him engage in sports and read books to him. These are important soft-skills and activities you should have your son take up and cultivate, because they are beneficial and are of good practice. If you can afford them that is.

Right now, just keep your son away from your husband's vices, seriously. Influence in your son's childhood is a critical stage.

This post has been edited by ZeratoS: Nov 7 2009, 02:07 PM

Want to rehabilitate him? Teach you how. Beat him with a spoon everytime he takes drugs. Again and again and again and again and again..



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