Oct 7 2009, 12:48 AM
QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 08:26 PM)
Me and 2 of my friends are now 24 and we still don't have / never had a gf before. Do you guys/girls think this could be a problem or do we still have lots of chances in the future? According to some people, girls nowadays are starting relationships early, around during school days 16-18 age and by the time we, 24 -25 age meet them in their 21-24, they're already taken and are in a stable relationship. Do you guys/girls think this is true?
Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too 'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?
Do give me some feedback on this.
Some girls commented that the 3 of us are a group of too 'husband-looking' guys and girls at 20s do not like to go out with us because we don't like parties/clubbing that much. We are those honest types of guys where, in the outside might look boring (because we dress normal and not very attractive) and girls say that we might get our love only around 30s because that's when girls finally find guys with our character to secure a future. What do you girls/guys think on this issue?
Do give me some feedback on this.
QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Oct 4 2009, 08:42 PM)
But we don't like clubbing at all. I don't know if what I heard is true but according to a lot of girls, they say that they like playful guys more in their 20s and that's why we're still eating 'white-fruit'. However my main concern is, is it too late for guys at 24 to begin having first loves and all or we don't even get chances because girls at these times should already being taken?
TS, look at yourself, and ask yourself if you are lacking. Maturity? Personal grooming? Being active and involved in things? Confidence?I used to buy into all that bullcrap generalisations about "being yourself", "looks are not important", etc. and all that rubbish the media tells us how we should act to get a girl.
If you have areas that are lacking, "being yourself" isn't going to fix these problem areas.
Looks are important. I mean this in terms of personal grooming. Make an effort to look good.
Attitude is also important. You don't have to like clubbing, but if you are able to find enjoyment from going, you'll open alot of doors to opportunities for meeting new and interesting people.
Confidence is arguably the most important. It takes confidence to be 'playful', which is why girls like guys like this exactly because they're exciting.
Couple interaction is also important to learn and practice, if you wait until you're 30 to do so, you'll have to do catch up with women who've had +10 years more experience than you.
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