dude, gals like guys that can ooze out confidence and a good sense of humor too...maybe can do some polish up on those...
and like wat others mentioned..."dumped" ur hing tai and extend ur social circles...dun worry,ur hing tai will always be there for u just like a safe deposits...
n sometimes because u're always with ur hing tais, at times u'll feel that u're not that desperate to find a gf cause u have them....t4 better make urself desperate by seeing them less...