read this if u understand chinese...

http://www.360doc.com/content/090203/17/100578_2450128.html

sometimes guys need to do something for your characteristic to attract girls. DUN keep talk about homey,homey and homey. human shouldnt limit and judge themselve that way, tat is no diff from putting more and more locks on yourself.

talk back to characteristics, some girls could think RICH, HANDSOME are the reasons tat could attract them. actually these are showing that girls always look after for "Better" Person. SOCIAL, TALENT are also could attract them.

Here is a example table to justify will she attracted

if She were RICH 9/10, PRETTY 9/10, SOCIAL 9/10, TALENT 9/10
and You were just RICH 1/10, HANDSOME 1/10, SOCIAL 1/10, TALENT 1/10, this is just simple logic let you understand why girl will not go after you.

P/S:
I also a homey fellow before but end up now i go club go drunk now.
I go club/drunk is to learn to enjoy my life but not chasing chick
Club and get gf is different things.

Welcome to the reality
There is no FREE Lunch.
In fact, you really got some wrong mind set.
Nowadays women rather remain single if the guy they met cant even meet their requirement.
Worse come to worse.. they rather be ppl's underground wife.

Accept the fact.
Learn the mistake & Change.