QUOTE(PhoenixByte @ Sep 12 2009, 07:20 PM)
So what gives u the right to equate others GENERALLY to the negativity to that u've seen? I treat u as i would treat others here..a unique individual. No more no less.
What i don't like is generalizing people of what some ppl did whether it's good or bad...n that's why I rolled my eyes. Yada yada yada...
ok selamat berbuka

Perhaps I should rephrase all the "Malaysians" in my previous topic to "majority of the Malaysians", so that you don't get the impression that I'm making a blanket statement about all these hideous behaviours I've mentioned.
But I find it amusing that you'd be riled up about this, because if you don't do those hideous behaviours I mentioned, you don't have to be angry that I have been addressing this to you all this while. The old adage "Siapa makan cili, dia rasa pedas" is apt here. I'd figure that if I KNOW that I don't do these things, I would be in direct agreement of these statements, and if I do DO these things, I would feel the pangs of guilt and resentment, leading to anger of being pointed out of my wrongdoings.
My point here is, I see "a majority of Malaysians" acting as I've mentioned, more than the minority that would do the good stuff. So, when it comes to these majority, I address them as such. If you are in the minority and are as passionate and outspoken to these injustice, why the anger then?

Yada yada yada as well...
QUOTE(yellowpika @ Sep 12 2009, 07:20 PM)
hmm, my mom like to speak up to injustice...

my dad even told her not to be like that, later kena beaten by samseng...

so it is good to speak up to injustice, but have to becareful a bit in case if the person is a bad guy..
btw, why not migrate?

Added on September 12, 2009, 7:22 pmwow, string is a malay kah?

Then I am glad, even if one soul can be saved from the incoming molding of future Malaysian into the kind you see now. I believe you are still young, and I applaud your mother's stance on this, hopefully she can instill the same values to you while you are still young and impressionable. It's hard to bend the bamboo when the outer skin is already tough.

Which comes to the subject of migrating you mentioned. There's several reason why a person migrates.
One, to find a better future, better for him/herself or for his/her family. This reason particularly is why lots of Malaysian Chinese migrate, and I applaud them for their bravery and guts to follow through a plan and not to waver.
The other probable reason is perhaps because:-
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that person does not feel a part of a society, a community or the people of the nation he was borned under, and wanted to be with the people he/she felt he most belonged to. For this second reason, most if not all the time, it is because that person is well-travelled, has been exposed to the way of life outside of his own country, and in turn feel compelled to change for the betterment of himself, but either unable to do so back at his home country, or shunned from doing so by the people of his own country, for either being too unorthodox to the way of life in his home country or because of the FEAR OF CHANGE by his own countrymen, that refuses to either listen or try to understand what he/she is trying to do/achieve. This particular person would probably feel so out of place to be in his current country of residence, and does not enjoy living in that kind of life, feel stifled by the restrictions and society's expectations of what he/she should be and not what he/she could be. Bonus to this also the same as per the first reason, he gets a better future for himself, and probably feel much better with living among people who make him/her feel like he/she belong with them. "No man is an island" is a saying most appropriate here, and mankind always feel the need to connect with one another, but to do when you dont feel like you belong, or like you connect with the people around you in your present country, UNLESS you conform and follow the society's expectations towards you? In other word, CONFORM or be shunned with. TOLERANCE is a thin veil in this country, we try to kid ourselves into thinking that "wow, look at us, many races many religions can live together, we are teh awesummm!", but the real deal is, there is great mistrust, prejudice and racial/religious bias among us. Compound that further with more communal expectations set by your own race/religions/set of peers like "must get married by xx age and have x kids by xx age", "must not drink beer or we rotan you if you of a certain religion", "must follow moldy racial/traditional rituals or you're shunned as being non-conformal", and that alone impose a subconscious burden on a person who just want to live as how he believe he should.
I question my belief as well, and to a certain extent, I ask why I'm doing it. To a point where I feel that I'm doing it because everybody else does it. That goes back to that thing of mine, where my internal conscience will not allow it. Time to move on. And by moving on, yes, my dear Yellowpika, I am migrating.
As for your question about me being Malay when Phoenixbyte mention puasa,

that is a msunderstanding lah! Puasa is for the Muslim, and Malay is a race. But I'm trying my absolute best to stray away from being a typical Malay, because their very characteristics annoys the hell out of me. Why? The very same reasons I've posted in that spoiler-tagged post above.