I used to have that complex: everyone is better than me and look at me lifting 10kgs and shouting like a girl. Then, I realised, they didn't get to where they are by magic, they got there with hard work (and a little thing called genetics). So I worked and worked on my own physique and whilst I'm in the best shape of my life, I still consider myself somewhat intermediately built; better than most, crappy compared to the better ones.

I like your second paragraph the best. My legs aren't the biggest but they're, at the very most, solid-looking as compared to others. Though, my upper body still needs a lot of work to "beat" some of the guys at my gym. I guess doing chest and abs exclusively can do wonders for some.

Shame about their ostrich-like legs, though...