Well,most of the time,it wont have happy ending.
Been through that before and now,only SDR for me.
I Feel Suicidal Foreigner Girlfriend, Sharing & Expressing experience
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Aug 6 2009, 06:26 PM
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Well,most of the time,it wont have happy ending.
Been through that before and now,only SDR for me. |
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Aug 6 2009, 06:27 PM
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Aug 6 2009, 06:28 PM
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Aug 6 2009, 07:09 PM
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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 6 2009, 06:27 PM) What happened actually? How it start? Oh,i said i was in LDR before and now you want to believe me?Which country? mind to share with me? ON pm also ok if you wanna keep it secret from others It's actually in CC,just they are in bits.Everywhere.Good place to start is Confession of Broken Hearts V5.Then,continue in SC V92 or somewhere. You know what,unless both of you actually work together to get rid of this distance issue,there will be no future and no point pursuing this.Or at least see each other once a few months.Her absence around you would make the feeling fade. Mine ended because we cant get rid of the distance issue.Then,slowly,the feelings fade,the lovely dovey is gone and smack,you are in real world.No fairy tales here.No happy endings.Combine with lack of communications and more other problems,i just give up. I was like you,thinking that it will work.Being absolutely stubborn about this,till to the point that i was going to sacrifice my offer to a much better uni(which is my current uni) for her.In the end,some forummers here actually made me realise i was making a huge mistake and i end up not being with her. Now,i feel that i made the right choice.She's changed her uni to somewhere else at the end of last year.If i actually sacrificed my offer letter for her,i would probably in regret now as i lost the chance to study in a good uni,and still in LDR with her.It wasnt worth it.At all. Now,you are pretty much on the same path as me.Do you realise? There are better girls out there and they are closer to you.Why just cling to this one? |
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Aug 6 2009, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(cyloh @ Aug 6 2009, 06:30 PM) I see where this is going. Anything we say is at best an assumption. Yeah,just a support group to mourn on each other experience.Advices, sniplets of wisdom will be ignored. I suggest everyone to retreat and let him have what he ultimately wants. Share similiar stories. Support group as they call it. QUOTE(jasonlim @ Aug 6 2009, 06:31 PM) I put arsehole just now. |
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Aug 6 2009, 07:14 PM
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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 6 2009, 07:11 PM) Thanks for the advice bro. Cause it's just an infatuation.You dont love her,as you never meet her or do anything side by side with her.Well, i already decide it. Actually i dont really know why i love her but i can't help it. Once you love her, then you cannot deny that you love her. Anyway, it's worth to give a try. I appreciate that bro. It's the hormones in your nuts are making you feel like that. Gosh. I should just play Men of War now than posting this. |
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Aug 6 2009, 07:15 PM
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Aug 6 2009, 07:22 PM
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QUOTE(KirklandLee @ Aug 6 2009, 07:17 PM) well, We can't say much for him. If it works out it works out. At least he tried and maybe or maybe not learn his lesson. So let him go through the experience of life. Everyone has to go through it once in a while. Yes,we wont know what happen in the future,but,what are the chances,or say,probability that this will work?Only by that will he can appreciate sweet victory. Thats gonna be a one painful fall for him if it doesnt end up with fairy tale ending.Hope he learns it well this time. QUOTE(eyhc89 @ Aug 6 2009, 07:18 PM) I support you TS, whole heartedly. I see what you did there. I support you to continue sending money when you're not sure whether she has a grandma/niece/whomever that's sick. I support you to love her 'with your whole heart, your whole strength, your whole mind' when you haven't seen her face to face, let alone knowing her true existence. I support you to continue seeking support from LYN when you hold barely any proof of her HONESTY. Finally, I'd like to stress it again that I SUPPORT YOU. |
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