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I Feel Suicidal Foreigner Girlfriend, Sharing & Expressing experience

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post Aug 6 2009, 06:26 PM

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Well,most of the time,it wont have happy ending.

Been through that before and now,only SDR for me.
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post Aug 6 2009, 06:27 PM

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QUOTE(jasonlim @ Aug 6 2009, 06:25 PM)
he will answer something similar like this..

"u dont need to submit ur resume to me..i dont want 2 c it..if u r not happy then dont post or even reply my thread"
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Yeah,where is Baronic? He should nuke this thread.
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post Aug 6 2009, 06:28 PM

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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 6 2009, 06:26 PM)
srry, i replied a different things~
You also thinks you're smart to understand me... but you dont
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Look,jason,he take all of us as an *******.

Amazing.

Love is blind eh,amane,and you get so blinded by it.
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post Aug 6 2009, 07:09 PM

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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 6 2009, 06:27 PM)
What happened actually? How it start?
Which country? mind to share with me? ON pm also ok if you wanna keep it secret from others
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Oh,i said i was in LDR before and now you want to believe me?

It's actually in CC,just they are in bits.Everywhere.Good place to start is Confession of Broken Hearts V5.Then,continue in SC V92 or somewhere.

You know what,unless both of you actually work together to get rid of this distance issue,there will be no future and no point pursuing this.Or at least see each other once a few months.Her absence around you would make the feeling fade.

Mine ended because we cant get rid of the distance issue.Then,slowly,the feelings fade,the lovely dovey is gone and smack,you are in real world.No fairy tales here.No happy endings.Combine with lack of communications and more other problems,i just give up.

I was like you,thinking that it will work.Being absolutely stubborn about this,till to the point that i was going to sacrifice my offer to a much better uni(which is my current uni) for her.In the end,some forummers here actually made me realise i was making a huge mistake and i end up not being with her.

Now,i feel that i made the right choice.She's changed her uni to somewhere else at the end of last year.If i actually sacrificed my offer letter for her,i would probably in regret now as i lost the chance to study in a good uni,and still in LDR with her.It wasnt worth it.At all.

Now,you are pretty much on the same path as me.Do you realise? There are better girls out there and they are closer to you.Why just cling to this one?
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post Aug 6 2009, 07:12 PM

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QUOTE(cyloh @ Aug 6 2009, 06:30 PM)
I see where this is going. Anything we say is at best an assumption.

Advices, sniplets of wisdom will be ignored.

I suggest everyone to retreat and let him have what he ultimately wants.
Share similiar stories. Support group as they call it.
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Yeah,just a support group to mourn on each other experience.

QUOTE(jasonlim @ Aug 6 2009, 06:31 PM)
wat is the ******* suppose 2 mean? hmm.gif
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I put arsehole just now.
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post Aug 6 2009, 07:14 PM

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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 6 2009, 07:11 PM)
Thanks for the advice bro.
Well, i already decide it. Actually i dont really know why i love her but i can't help it.
Once you love her, then you cannot deny that you love her. Anyway, it's worth to give a try.
I appreciate that bro.
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Cause it's just an infatuation.You dont love her,as you never meet her or do anything side by side with her.

It's the hormones in your nuts are making you feel like that.

Gosh.

I should just play Men of War now than posting this. doh.gif
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post Aug 6 2009, 07:15 PM

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QUOTE(KirklandLee @ Aug 6 2009, 07:13 PM)
give the dude a chance. lets see if he can make it
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Heh,what chance does he have?
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post Aug 6 2009, 07:22 PM

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QUOTE(KirklandLee @ Aug 6 2009, 07:17 PM)
well, We can't say much for him. If it works out it works out. At least he tried and maybe or maybe not learn his lesson. So let him go through the experience of life. Everyone has to go through it once in a while.

Only by that will he can appreciate sweet victory.  smile.gif
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Yes,we wont know what happen in the future,but,what are the chances,or say,probability that this will work?

Thats gonna be a one painful fall for him if it doesnt end up with fairy tale ending.Hope he learns it well this time.

QUOTE(eyhc89 @ Aug 6 2009, 07:18 PM)
I support you TS, whole heartedly.

I support you to continue sending money when you're not sure whether she has a grandma/niece/whomever that's sick.

I support you to love her 'with your whole heart, your whole strength, your whole mind' when you haven't seen her face to face, let alone knowing her true existence.

I support you to continue seeking support from LYN when you hold barely any proof of her HONESTY.

Finally, I'd like to stress it again that I SUPPORT YOU. smile.gif
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I see what you did there. laugh.gif

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