Free Will or Determinism

The word Determinism makes me wonder whether is there solid evidence for the theory that human choice is not free, but is decided by past events.

First of all, i am not a religious nor anti religious person. Call me a free thinker. If heaven is build to accommodate God's believer/followers and Hell is for those that commit sin which are judge by thier respective God, then i wonder where would people like me would end up be?

Next, is the word Fate carrries the same effect in Determinism?
Personally I think yea, whoever that came across in our life regarless parents friends lovers or enemies are predetermine. These sort of relationship happend spontaneously and is seriously immature to bring it as a matter of free will.

In contary however, i believed consequences are the result of human free will and not determinism. The golden rule is never blame other for ur mistakes. Also, dont u think human are selfish when they only want to take the credits but if there occured to be wrongs they would just point at others.