can i add? I am a girl so i can justify this wahhahah

6) Surprise her with acts of care and concern:

Get her medicine when she's sick, a drink or a tapao'ed meal when she's working hard and late. A hug when you know she's feeling down (ask permission first)

Melt her heart It's a good way to make her fall for you too hehehhe. Just be sure that this is a sincere act and not something you do only up to when she finally gets together with you, grr

It's a very obvious sign that you like her and want to make her feel special. But at the same time if she expresses concern you can always pretend to say "i'm doing this because i care for you as a friend (:"

that depends on how badly you want her then (:

love is a risk

there's a chance that your energy and effort is all a waste

there is a chance that she sees the caring, sweet, boyfriend side of you and go "hmm, maybe he IS the right guy for me after all" and she'll learn to love you too.

i think above all, girls just want to be genuinely cared for

yeah, i agree it's not as easy as it seems sometimes. I was giving a general tip, tip 6 was based on personal experience well then there are a few possibilities to your situation

- she's playing hard to get (but she secretly likes you and feels that she needs to increase her market value abit)
- she's playing hard to get (in a selfish attention whore way with no regards to your feelings)
- she can't make up her mind

no straight path to love, but once you reach your destination it's a beautiful beautiful thing (:

@euphoria:

"But at the same time if she expresses concern you can always pretend to say "i'm doing this because i care for you as a friend (:""

Haha sorry, i should have defined that earlier. Sometimes guys really have no chance against the girl even after showering her with attention and love and care. But if he really wanted to he shouldn't give up so early, because some girls give in at the end. So that statement is to mislead the girls to think that everything is still on a safe level

Or you can try this line -

"I'm doing it because I care, and it makes me happy to see you smile. I have no expectations towards you to do something back for me, or feel anything towards me. I simply want to make you happy." - xxx

Wah i feel like i'm betraying my own kind xD