sorry I did not read all 65 pages...
But the first post may work for most girls but beware sometimes it doesn't.

I have a friend who really in love with this girl(who is really close friend of me)

He did everything like make her laugh, bring her to dinners(some really romantic) and buy her gifts and body contact(like touching her hand) but not holding hands or stuff like that.
bare in mind that she is very conservative Asian girl who don't like people touching her.

But after 1 whole year, he confessed, she rejected him.

I asked why she rejected him when he was obviously in love with her and she said, she did not know that he was in love with her and he is not her type(no chemistry). She saw him as a good friend

I tried to be a good bro by trying hard to push her to him like telling he is good looking, got money, super smart and stuff like that and she still refuse to say yes to him.

So please beware guys, best way if you like a girl and want to go out with her, ask her out immediately coz at least wont be as painful when got rejected.

Well same case here.

I am much closer to the girl compared to the guy. She texted me the other day that she went to see the guy even after I told her not to. She wants to say sorry and wants to remain friends but the guy was pestering her by asking her to give reasons why she wont go out with him

She told me she gave reason she likes me to him. but I know she is lying to him

Now I am big trouble coz that guy going to treat me differently.

Here I dont blame the her coz she is naive and innocent but I feel very bad for him coz I was in his shoes once before and I know how much the pain was.(mine was worse, 2 years I tried)

Well I am no expert but by experience, if someone doesn't like you after trying very very hard, maybe spend the effort on someone who would appreciate it.

do you really love him?

i think the girl is the problem? she been fickle minded; n then hurt the guy, so now what nonsense of fren?

I guess; she hav alrdy ruin a good party & guest in the party is angry, no matter how much you try to rewind; once screwed is basically screwed.

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Added on December 10, 2011, 11:18 pm

cos you are making it worst for her?
If you dont want get into such situation again, better refrain yrself away. Keep distance awhile. Let her clear her problem.

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Added on December 10, 2011, 11:19 pm

idk abt u nicole but if you are; then maybe you need to look yourself in the mirror.

Maybe he`s just not into you?
Nicole; why?

awww, wat drink you want?

Johnnie walker?

Maybe you did something bad to him; that he dont like it?

ouch, how come? like that shall I leave you alone or shall I accompany you?

then can I come in?

since when indian guy

What you want to achieve?

u cant drive?

o.O, good luck with it. Its peanut

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Added on December 11, 2011, 1:14 pm

I guess he dont get the message after all.  Was trying to tell him such

(pat pat, whats wrong?)?

you need someone to talk to?