I have a crush on a girl. Basically I have done all the 5 ways that mentioned in this thread before I read this.

I went out with her for for 3 times in total for the past 2 weeks. We do message on and off. We met in work place and chit chat. I bought her coffee and she seemed quite happy.

But I am confused because I sometimes had a hard time in inviting her out. She would said she went out with friends and cant go out with me. I believed she did not cheat me because I did see her going out with friends.

But the thing is I have been asking her out during weekend, but she said not sure whether free or not. My thinking is that, if some one asks me out and I am interested, I will agree with it and if other friends ask me out on that day, I will just said I am not free during that day to my friend. But the situation is different because I feel that I am not the priority for her.

But the result was that we did go out, but only for a short 2 hours time because she is meeting friends at 3pm.

On the other hands, everytime i went out with her. I feel that it is actually not bad at all.

So I am not sure what is she thinking... May be she just take that as a normal lunch/dinner with ordinary friends. That's why I am not the priority to her.