i have a question here, i failed step 5 before with this girl, but now it seems like i have done step 1,2,3 slowly... probably because last time she don't know me much and i straight to step 5... should i uhm proceed ?

i'm not sure bout that, cause i'm asian, and she's half filipino half caucasian, so i really don't know if she will date asian now that she's more comfortable with me i wonder if i should ask her out.

i would never ask about something like that..

find me attractive hmm i don't know, i admit i'm not handsome but presentable when i'm not working, cos i work in a kitchen, i just wear cincai..
but i just can feel abit that she's trying to get my attention a lil bit or i perasan, i don't know =.=

[quote=silverhawk,Jul 30 2009, 08:57 PM]
You reality is a dark one
You assume women get attracted based on looks like men do. Which is obviously, incorrect.
Qualities women are attracted to tend to take some knowing to establish, so how would they know they're attracted to you or not if you both haven't gotten to know each other? There's attraction, and there's also repulsion, but there's a middle ground that almost all of us start in and tend to be in for a very long time before it shifts to positive (attraction) or negative (repulsion).
So only start courting a person who's already attracted to you? Do you know how many girls go "you know I would never have thought I'd fall for a guy like my bf"? Only approaching girls which show interests in you is weak and a cowards way of living.
You never learn anything in life until you experience it first hand.

that is what i'm thinking now, maybe i had done step 1-3 but maybe she just find me as a friend ?

uh okay then i'm gonna ask her out next week... i was actually thinking of inviting her to my house that i'm gonna try some recipe, cause i made some nice dessert several times and bring it to my workplace and she loves it, but i dont know if inviting her to my place would be too quick or something u know

try to win her heart by cooking something.? maybe it's too quick i should try and ask her for coffee or lunch 1st i guess

and silverhawk, i want your opinion on this one, she never comment on my facebook but she will ask me about my status the other day or something when we met, does that mean she is doing the number 3 on me?

okay okay thanks for the encouragement, i shall ask her out next week and uhm the reason of my undecisiveness is because she rejected me before last time when i asked her out for lunch, she replied me that she just broke up and not looking for any relationship.. but that was like 6 months ago

This post has been edited by dr3w: Jul 30 2009, 09:34 PM

sure, will do

love is not something that comes so easily