QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 11:50 AM)
Personally, I don't think insults and flamewars make CC a lousy place. I've insulted and flamed people before, and lemme tell you, they deserved it. I don't buy this "let's all respect each other" business when some posts don't deserve respect.
I understands what are u trying to say. I do flame ppl too. But from different aspect.
Normally ppl focus on "winning" a flame war but what I'm doing is actually attempting to raise the other person’s awareness while maintaining my own sense of inner peace. By this I mean that you focus on helping the other person become more aware of the full extent of their behavior and how it affects you and others, but without taking ownership of anything the other person says.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage is another story.
QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 11:50 AM)
That's mainly the reason why I wrote my "5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You're Interested In Her." I don't really want to put myself up as some kind of love guru, actually.
In any case, let me just bring it up again -
TAKE CC OUT OF /K/."5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You're Interested In Her." is really a superb post i might say. Normally I'll skip those wall of text but this is one of those thread which i actually read from the very beginning to the end.
You'll have my both hands up to vote for moving cc out of /k/