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ac_N1
post Jul 28 2009, 09:08 AM

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First and foremost, this is the place where ppl seeks for advise. So this suggestion thread should be moved to Helpdesk.
And secondly the aim of an argument or discussion should not be victory, but progress.
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post Jul 28 2009, 03:11 PM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Jul 28 2009, 01:36 PM)
Such sanctimony.

Half of this thread is addressed to the members here ourselves, asking us what WE can do to make this thread better, instead of crying for help to the mods for every little thing.

So please, I think you need to stfu before spouting more pithy sayings.
Crying for help to the mods? Only u would do that.

I don't think u know how the forums work here. I'm suggesting you to post this over there simply because all the higher ups is there, which I don't have to mention who. Only cc forumer and some mods can see this thread here, which will make no difference.

The key to make this sub a better place is actually lies within each and every forumer itself. And seriously this place wont turn into a better place when someone like u is around. When you don't like others opinion you'll just ask them to stfu. If you want to flame me, you can pm me and flame me there. Flaming in an open thread shows how immature you are.
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post Jul 28 2009, 04:18 PM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Jul 28 2009, 03:48 PM)
Do you even have a mind capable of basic comprehension?

Or do you need to conform everything you see to what little you know (which seems to be nothing more than a collection of platitudes and pithy saying anyway)?

You'll need to take the effort to grow a BRAIN before I'll even talk to you in a civil manner.
Convincing yourself doesn't win an argument biggrin.gif


QUOTE(Cheesenium @ Jul 28 2009, 04:03 PM)
Chill guys,i dont want to see this to be a flame war here.
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Let it be cheese.... let mod close this as it's turning into flame thread.
I hate talking to idiots. They'll only pull you down to their level and pawn you with their so called 'experience'. Lolz
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post Jul 28 2009, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Jul 28 2009, 04:22 PM)
ROFL!

You're trying really hard to derail and close this thread, aren't you?

Why? Does it threaten you that much?

It's quite revealing who the posters here are, who want things to remain the way it is because they feel that any change threatens their "lulz" and serenity.

No, moderators. Keep this thread OPEN.

I will simply IGNORE the fu.cktards here creating a rabble assembly.
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You're right rclxms.gif
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post Jul 28 2009, 04:40 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 28 2009, 04:28 PM)
Actually, I don't think flame wars are a bad thing, as long as it's still two people presenting their differing opinions. It might even be entertaining.  biggrin.gif
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post Jul 28 2009, 08:15 PM

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QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Jul 28 2009, 07:05 PM)
Interesting concept.

But why should I be beholden to sense and civility when others are not?

You've been here a longer time than me. You're familiar with the PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE methods of argumentation and obfuscation frequently used by your troll and dupe friends. You're certainly very familiar with their brute methods of argumentation by majority where they band together to pat each other on the back for statements as simple as "duh hu hu hu".

Now by comparison if I see something truly stupid beyond words I call it brainless AND I explain why.

Is that not more direct and honorable? It certainly leaves the other party the option of defending himself fairly and even returning the favor tenfold if I'm in the wrong.

Please my dear sir. Your bias and prejudice is showing rather transparently.
You doesn't treat someone else fairly or tease them due other things.
You consider yourself is better than others and look down upon them.
You are not considerate of others' feelings.

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post Jul 29 2009, 09:21 AM

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You doesn't treat someone else fairly or tease them due other things.
You consider yourself is better than others and look down upon them.
You are not considerate of others' feelings.
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You take everything too personally
You are immature
You are should be attacking the points raised, and not the ppl who raised the point.
You couldn't take criticism & handle your temper well

Your intention to make this a better place is good. But your attitude towards it and the usage of language is simply awful. The way you are handling your cases is not any better than those /k/tards out there.
Why don't you change yourself to a better you first before you convince others to do the same? Seriously this place won't turn into a better place when someone is running around spitting vulgar words.
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post Jul 29 2009, 12:32 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 11:50 AM)
Personally, I don't think insults and flamewars make CC a lousy place. I've insulted and flamed people before, and lemme tell you, they deserved it. I don't buy this "let's all respect each other" business when some posts don't deserve respect.
I understands what are u trying to say. I do flame ppl too. But from different aspect.
Normally ppl focus on "winning" a flame war but what I'm doing is actually attempting to raise the other person’s awareness while maintaining my own sense of inner peace. By this I mean that you focus on helping the other person become more aware of the full extent of their behavior and how it affects you and others, but without taking ownership of anything the other person says.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage is another story.

QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 11:50 AM)
That's mainly the reason why I wrote my "5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You're Interested In Her." I don't really want to put myself up as some kind of love guru, actually.

In any case, let me just bring it up again - TAKE CC OUT OF /K/.
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"5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You're Interested In Her." is really a superb post i might say. Normally I'll skip those wall of text but this is one of those thread which i actually read from the very beginning to the end.

You'll have my both hands up to vote for moving cc out of /k/
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post Jul 29 2009, 12:51 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 29 2009, 12:45 PM)
Wow, longest post by hobbes thus far laugh.gif I always like how you write when you get serious, as uneducated as you are laugh.gif
Granted that mr. poonani is rather crude, but I would say that in what he writes, there is a wealth of information in it. Should we ignore what he has to say, just because he is rude in his approach? Do you prefer weaker advice, as long as it is nice?
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Mr. poonani..... lols xD~~
You take that as an advice?

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post Jul 29 2009, 01:32 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 29 2009, 12:59 PM)
Yes, because I can look pass the crudeness and see his point. While others like you, focus on the crude part and miss his points entirely. This sort of reaction reveals things to me, and I'm assuming it reveals things to mr. poonani as well.

For me, its a common technique I use sometimes to see why a person is in a discussion. If I can be crude and the person can ignore it to discuss the points involved, then it is obvious the person is in the discussion for the points and not for some personal agenda. When a person gets defensive over the "insults" its obvious that the person isn't open to new ideas, but thinks about their own personal issues first and foremost.
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I din mention his point doesnt mean i miss them out. I admit i did focus on the crude part as I personally think that ppl will respect you and take your opinion if you respect others.


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If I can be crude and the person can ignore it to discuss the points involved, then it is obvious the person is in the discussion for the points and not for some personal agenda.


Well, i couldn't agree with you more. But but that only works with people who have trained their minds very well and can approach truth with some objectivity. But not me, I'm categorized in those 'under educated' and I cant use my mind like u do.

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