dear all..i want to share my stories that happent almost 1 week..

Im a 25 years old guy whos still studying..while my fiancee is 24 and shes working now.

the thing is we always fight about small things n sometimes shes bring some old issues up.

and we do the long distance relationship..

and honestly all the emails n facebook i make for her, for sure i know all the password...n she also know all my password.

last week i found this guy message her on facebook which asking her phone number n exchange phone number n mail..

n i found out that this guy is her cousin nephew.

tonight i accidently sign in her YM cos i see shes offline n i dont have any idea that shes appear offline that time..

so when im sign in they still chat which means my fiancee YM is signout while me is on.

so that guy dont have any idea whats going on just.. i got the words from him "hahahaha yea its should be like that" and "wah...why sign out???"

im shock..n go for sign out instanly..

later on 30 minutes latter im trying sing in again..things happent again..the guy words "hahahahah.yaya" and "huh?? sign out again??"

its already 12.30am..while everytime i ask her to chat with me she always said that she tired..shes sleepy..always got excueses..what about this man??

why he got the time for chat??? what about me??

and i also find out that this guy come to my engagement party with his cousin.

and my fiancee n this guy know each other in the january i think..cos i see his cousin photo wedding that they all (cousin nephew siblings) taking picture all together.

what should i do actually??

i know im thinking to much on negative side..n i do believe in her..

but what happend n so on just make me wonder what it is about actually..whats going on..

while im sms her, shes not reply..even reply will make any fight on..

and i also dont know what they are talking about at YM..

i cant tell her straight "hei what u doing chat this late with this guy??" huh i think its gonna be more worse..

can anyone tell me what should i do..i really hopeless now..as a man maybe i lost my dignity already..shame on me.

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should post in cupid crnr..

wah2 wait...i dont know that..how i move the thread? sorry2..i really dont know..

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Added on June 2, 2009, 3:13 amsorry MOD..pls just close it..i really have no idea..i selldome come to this subforum. really sorry about this.thx.

This post has been edited by samyueru: Jun 2 2009, 03:13 AM

u cant..only mod can do that..just wish that the mod will have a mood for tomorrow morning..

Since hav to wait until 2moro morning,can we help him out of his problem?

nope, i cant do anything to help..


minor contribution:

> at least try to ask your fiancee first ok, listen to wat she has to say....

dear TS, pelase discuss with ur fiancee, what's going on between both of u..

u are not going to check her YM frequently ba.. rite? didn't ur fiancee's YM shows that her YM had been log in by others?

if msn, it will show one wo..

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