What the hell? How come the most important part is missing?!?!? I didnt come across anything that relates to secks... Which is compulsory to maintain a good relationship.

r u sure???

look at passion

anti-premaritalsex

what??

sense of mystery is gone once indulged in sex. evry intimate detail is explored. unless ur married lah

yes it is but
i don't agree with premarital sex unless the couple take good measures of controlling it
but i'm not an anti-premarital sex guy..
not necessarily to get married in order to explore the intimate world of ur partner

well, the adrenaline rush is jz temporary. after awhile the passion dwindles away..since u have explored one cave u wouldnt keep returning back to that cave would u?

no i would like to...
but at a different time and with a different style..
there are lot of things needed to be tried in passion..
if u're with someone for ur lifetime, passion will never dwindles away if u learn and never bored with each other.

its still the same cave...

thats why, a strong relationship still ultimately depends on trust and loyalty. but these days ppl go for looks 1st b4 personality

Does that mean that after marriage u visit the cave adi then find for other cave also?

kinda
there is two cave actually..
one is a long V shape like cave..
the other is small tight round cave..
so ur question is kinda depends on the couple lah want to explore or not..
the only thing interesting is wat mood and equipment u bring to the cave

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Added on May 24, 2009, 2:12 pmnot quite..
a strong relationship requires what i wrote in the first post..
but i agree with wat u say looks, money rather than personality n lifestyle

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 24 2009, 02:12 PM

well by the time u have reached the vital stage of marriage u'll need to look past the subject of hot sex...etc. not to say that a healthy and active sex life aint important after marriage but its time u choose a side between a good husband/father or immature sex-maniac

hEY DUDE, you coulda remake a new thread altogether...changing the content actually makes all previous replies worthless. Just a suggestion.

that's right..

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Added on May 24, 2009, 2:22 pmthat's why i put a notice on the first page..
lazy to copy2....
can make things easier for Baronic lah..

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 24 2009, 02:22 PM

Make up your mind. First you say sex is not important before marriage and now u say its not important after marriage. S when should one be sexually actve?

Its quite ridiculous for you to think that sex before marriage = immature sex maniac and sex after marriage = good husband/father

Its all about the attitude you put into the relationship and how you treat your partner. Marriage or no marriage will not change that.

as a Christian, i daresay on behalf of Islam and Chrisitianity that premarital sex is a sin. i believe theres an equilibrium in everythg and its whr everyone should strive to strike a balance in.

i agree with silverhawk
no need explanation from me then..

yes it is a sin, but why would people do that even they knew it is a sin?
if they won't listen to their faith, then they perhaps can listen to others.
that's why there is politics, government, condom makers, shrinks, etc..

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 24 2009, 02:34 PM

Well that is your believe, can't expect everyone to belief in the same thing no?

well..those were jz my 2cents though.