longest record..1 1/2 days?
not pain meh after fight never talk for long time?
Cold war with partner, ever argued with bf? how long?
Cold war with partner, ever argued with bf? how long?
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May 31 2009, 01:27 AM
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longest record..1 1/2 days?
not pain meh after fight never talk for long time? |
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Jun 1 2009, 04:43 PM
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max 2days for things to settle down...
if more than 2days... either 1 of u very small gas... |
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Jun 1 2009, 05:05 PM
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446 posts Joined: Oct 2006 From: No specification- around the world |
It's normal dear, no worry, as long as that is not hurting each other alot.The couple that fights the most is the one most in love... it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring.
Don't let someone become your everything, because when they're gone you have nothing! Love is never wanting to lose faith, never wanting to give up, and never truly moving on. Love is knowing and praying in the deepest part of what's left of your heart that they feel the same. If we are to judge of love by its consequences, it more nearly resembles hatred than friendship. |
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Jun 1 2009, 05:10 PM
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is normal between couple, and sometimes, this is one of the ways to show they care.
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Jun 1 2009, 07:30 PM
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2 mths...i finally broke my ego and apologized...we were happy again
p/s: yeah i was darn hard headed back then |
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Jun 1 2009, 08:44 PM
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433 posts Joined: Jan 2008 From: Penang, Malaysia |
Argue = Can be due to disagreement / Flaw in understanding for each other.
Solution = Agree to disagree / Communicate, make the other party understand for each other. If theres enough understanding for each other, all these problem wont even exist. As for me to my current relationship of 3years and 6months, the only and longest cold war we had is 3 hours. |
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Jun 1 2009, 09:06 PM
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5 posts Joined: Feb 2009 From: The Kingdom far far away |
the THIng is, I dun like arguments to occur.
Everytime when I sense one is coming, I take a deep breath n walk away eventhough how unsatisfy I feel sometimes about the matter, but no point keep on hammering on to it cos argument will then erupt. I never like arguments because its too darn painful n hard for me.i prefer to walk away, cool down n talk over it when both r calm enough. I won't let ego thwart the way of our relationship. |
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Jun 1 2009, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE(SerenityCalling @ Jun 1 2009, 09:06 PM) the THIng is, I dun like arguments to occur. nice method of having things done!Everytime when I sense one is coming, I take a deep breath n walk away eventhough how unsatisfy I feel sometimes about the matter, but no point keep on hammering on to it cos argument will then erupt. I never like arguments because its too darn painful n hard for me.i prefer to walk away, cool down n talk over it when both r calm enough. I won't let ego thwart the way of our relationship. how i wish alot of the girls outside do the same... |
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Jun 1 2009, 09:15 PM
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155 posts Joined: Aug 2008 From: Does it really matter? |
1 week.
My ex had anger issues =/ |
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Jun 1 2009, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(icyfawkes @ Jun 1 2009, 09:10 PM) But the thing is, sometimes the other person won't want it to be this way, they would prefer to argue n just get it all out of their system. One of my ex, has rage issues too Normally, I would just keep quiet, let him argue n I will calmly tell him to take back whatever he said n walk away. |
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Jun 1 2009, 09:42 PM
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QUOTE(SerenityCalling @ Jun 1 2009, 09:35 PM) But the thing is, sometimes the other person won't want it to be this way, they would prefer to argue n just get it all out of their system. hahaha...One of my ex, has rage issues too Normally, I would just keep quiet, let him argue n I will calmly tell him to take back whatever he said n walk away. go in from the left ear goes out from the right ear cool...wickedly cool... to be honest im the other kind that hates arguements...best if we juz chat it all up and be done with the problem...and accept the solution of course |
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Jun 1 2009, 09:59 PM
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Jun 1 2009, 10:31 PM
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QUOTE(icyfawkes @ Jun 1 2009, 09:42 PM) hahaha... of cos no la. how can go in from left ear, go out from right ear. he was my guy so whatever he have to say, matters also. go in from the left ear goes out from the right ear cool...wickedly cool... to be honest im the other kind that hates arguements...best if we juz chat it all up and be done with the problem...and accept the solution of course but i just dun lik him saying stuff when he's all mad and in rage. cos u know how ppl are sometimes, they say whatever shit when they r mad. so i wont fight back, cos if i do. then the argument will become worst. i just kept quiet and shot back at him, u better take it all back. must got communication and compromises wat. must be calm. no point yelling and biting each other head off |
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Jun 1 2009, 11:22 PM
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The way i see it, arguement is important so that both parties dont keep any unhappiness whithin themselves or they'll end up hurt badly, then split up forever..........
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Jun 1 2009, 11:27 PM
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Now i got a very GOOD suggestion for all couples.
Since me and bf been together for 1 year + and been to many places before for dates. So we collected all photos taken during the happy moments. Then after that we'll develope all the sweet photos and keep 'em in an album. Whenever we argue (usually i started 1st) then i'll look bec at the album and therefore will appreciate our relationship more than "berkira" the minor thing with him |
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Jun 2 2009, 12:06 AM
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really no talk at all i think about 2 days? dragged on cold wars would like about a week with occasional one or two smses (tht will somehow lead to further argument or pointless replies...esp by me XD)
i think it's normal to argue but try not to say you wanna break up or ask your partner to find someone else whenever you do argue coz it's really frustrating. i know people that really took it word by word and went out with someone else when his limit is tested by then girlfriend now ex. even if i do take out and reminise on those things that we've been through in this coming 5 years, i don't think i would have the willpower or will even think of it when we argue. but weird thing is, whenever we meet up after an argument, even if we're still upset at each other, the feelings just disappear and we'll be back to normal and even better *hehes* |
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Jun 2 2009, 12:08 AM
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