arguing is not about win, is about understanding each another.

agree 
both of u will know each other better.
if arguing, i will not talking for 2 days. first time is weird but he get to use of it and understand me more.
love matters is not always in sunshine, the storm and hurricane will perfect it.
it's the spice of love dear. you bf might show he want to win the war but believe me, he look steady but inside his heart he wounded so much.
i guess so 

love is like give and take. if he only 'take', u should wisely think how to treat him. it's about balance.

well ..it depends on what time of argument, but if really argument until quarrel kaw kaw then up to slamming car door and all stuu (u can think bout it) maybe the answer is incompatibility

and and..

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is a very mean and nasty place and it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't how hard you hit; it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done. Now, if you know what you're worth, then go out and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hit, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you are because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that and that ain't you. You're better than that!

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By the way, some cold war is ok, but don't too much.
My 2 years relationship cold war record was 48 hours.

Tolerate to each other and always talk to each other.

o.0...lolx..the longest cold war i've ever had is 6hours

cold war is good sign, scold him soi kung/soi poh.

bf , gf will argue...

DONT like him jus break it off... CANT tahan just change one... DONT regret until both of you got children then you find out you werent meant for each other