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elru
post May 12 2009, 05:37 PM

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QUOTE(monashguy @ May 12 2009, 05:13 PM)
Based on TS quote on his other thread:

"Couple of situations I'm already aware of.

1) Friend bought a RM250 necklace for his GF on her bday."

His is also thinking RM250 is too big deal for a one year event.  shakehead.gif  rclxub.gif  rolleyes.gif  sweat.gif

First I need to stress I am not rich too but if I like a girl I won't mind. My dad has money and I haven't ask him money to say please sponsor and If I need money for gf I won't ask him. I need to strive hard and mind you, I did spend my whole month's salary once to get a expensive present for my dad(when I just started working) and for a girl I wouldn't mind, stop whining TS, how much you are willing to spend on your gf will tell you how much you love them.
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be it Rm250 or Rm25 still couldnt justify the love from him to her. how bout if the guy spend rm1000 for a necklace as her bday necklace yet didnt bother to put in affords to celebrate with her?

QUOTE(SPS @ May 12 2009, 05:20 PM)
In essence, your statement means multi-millionaires love their spouses the most since they can afford to buy fancy sports cars and hermes handbags for them.

Duh....
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lol. i also dun believe love should be represented thru material sense. Unless the guy desperately wanted to get the girl's attention, to tell her how much he loves her, and willing to use up all his money to flourish gifts for her...


elru
post May 12 2009, 06:42 PM

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QUOTE(monashguy @ May 12 2009, 06:34 PM)
I am not trying to be religious here and I don't claim to be religious, but since someone posted and talked on the bible, a quote from the bible:

"7 You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. "

I believe that since man is stronger, he has more obligations to provide than a woman. I am not saying women shouldn't share the burden but since it's the man that wants to marry, then pay for the wedding!!
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this is sad to hear...
elru
post May 12 2009, 07:10 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ May 12 2009, 06:57 PM)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xWqgD7lGneU

You can be a Christian and still follow your own way.
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no, i mean its sad that a guy has to pay for every single penny for the marriage, regardless its any cultural wedding in this modern era. so all the poor guys no need to get marry already. and if marry would be so expensive, so what would happens to those less attractive girls?
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post May 12 2009, 07:33 PM

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QUOTE(monashguy @ May 12 2009, 07:22 PM)
If less people marry and have children it's better, look at africa, over population so no food to eat, less crime rate also in more country, less people means lower unemployment rate. It's actually not a bad idea, and people no money to marry can keep all their money for themselves and  have a better life for themselves. Not too bad a deal.
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i would rather believe there are always someone for everyone and not to the money the woman are marrying, unless they have something equal to trade in return, eg. pretty look with hot body.

also, there are less attractive girls wouldnt mind marrying to those not so well to do guys, together they are still capably and sufficiently raise a simple healthy family. unless there are those who has no desire to pass on their genetic information and rather die alone, and by alone, thats not much wealth can one built compared to two.

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