Hi girls,

I just get to know abt this forum lately, and decided to ask some forumers for some advice.

Recently, I lost my virginity to a guy who loved me very much and I love him very much too. I would say I enjoy the process and we're more in love with each other ever since.

But, I have few questions,
1. Is it, the first few time of making out, will still bleed? Is it normal?
2. We played safe, used condom everytime, but I still worry abt getting pregnant, as I dun wan to be pregnant before marriage. So, its condom very very safe? As long as his 'ejaculated stuff' din get in contact wif my va****, there's nothing to worry abt right? I feel worried everytime after making out.

Sorry for being so stupid if I asked stupid question. Hope there's someone to solve my heart discomfort that bothers me for quite a period of time. thanks.

1. not all girls bleed. and even if u do, its normal, its ur hymen tearing.
2. the BEST protection is using condoms... or abstinence.

1. yes few days, 2-3? times, i mean lol
2. erm....

This post has been edited by myghimh: Jun 13 2010, 12:31 PM

girl, u should go google up and read more.
and i think condom is pretty safe compared to others.
or u can just check ur menstrual calender (or whatever they call it), and take note of which day is absolutely safe for sex - the not fertile period.

1. Perhaps normal due to excessive force and trauma~

2. Use condom, safe as long as properly applied and does not leak or some awkward accident happens

oh, what awkward accident might happen? o.o Im more calm now :-)

condom is safe but it's not 100% safe. anyway, you could consider taking birth control pill... but at the same time, use condom to prevent any STD diseases. good luck.

after a few more times you wont feel the pain anymore and will start to enjoy it...

Abortion is only legal if the mother's life is in danger.

I can say the guy is luckly. Btw, how old ru?

1. Is normal for the first time.

2. Condom is not 100% safe...If you play save, then sud not be a problem..

So don't worry too much..Just enjoy urself..Worry doens't solve any problem tho

Cheers!

Although condom is not 100% safe, if you use it correctly and use the right brand, it is near to 100% safe. If you don't do it during your fertile week + wear condom(durex extra thick/safe) + check whether there is any leakage each time(get morning after pill if there is) you're near to 100% safe.

To be safe, take the Pill, use condom, and next morning take morning-after-pill. Confirm no children

And before love making, make sure he masturbated at least 3 times prior to your session with him. By then his sperm count would be very very low.

This post has been edited by ayamkambing: Jun 14 2010, 10:46 AM

 

This post has been edited by dma0991: Apr 7 2015, 09:56 PM

And you know this... how?

enjoy it..no worries..

As a YOUNG guy, erection can always happen even after 5 times masturbation. Each ejaculating, semen and sperms becomes smaller in quantities.
After that, continue masturbating once everyday, consistently. It will keep sperm count to minimal. And with condoms, chances of impregnation is greatly reduced.

Trust me, I know, i have alot of girl friends at one point in my college years (of booze and girls )

The safest is after the 5th time. But 3 times is ok la. Doesnt take much energy, just a left or right hand. Helps in building up muscles.
But for love making, men need to excercise on cardio and stamina, arm strength, and pelvic/hip muscles for longer lasting sessions.

Anyway, for TS, dont worry too much. But if it PERSIST (bleeding), please consult your local gynecologist.

This post has been edited by ayamkambing: Jun 14 2010, 12:28 PM

nice advise.

but after 1 time u still got mood to masturbate a?

Or maybe a few decades later they'll have each other's grandchildren?

i don have few decades to see that.

what? how old are you? 50+?!