Wanna talk? =x *sits nearby*

what should u feel, when u did something to try to stop someone from doing something which is not good, yet, you are in no position or eligble to change that incident from happening...?

don't worry, you'll be inbetween me and piopio, we'll keep you nice and warm

*sigh once, leaning back slightly*

Well. Sad of course. But we're only human, no? There's only so much we can do, depending on the relation you and the person are on.

Sometimes all they want is time, alone. Maybe. So we have no choice but to believe, that they'll do the right choice.

Even when you're waiting on the other side of the door.

>w< *purrs, settling*

so all u can do is just wait for that person to regret 1 day? u know u tried ur best, yet that person still believes that its right to do so...

Most of the time, it requires people to feel regret to know what they gone wrong.

And laugh at them and scream "I told you so !!" at your pleasure.

This post has been edited by Fatimus: Apr 16 2009, 01:58 AM

Can I know what it is? Is this matter inflict self hurt?

*scratch head* then maybe best wasn't good enough. That depends on how far you are willing to go for a person. How much you're willing to put in. I know care cannot be measured but sometimes, though a pain, a person wants to know that they matter.

I use to have someone like that. I use to say that, I may not be able to keep holding your hand when you're on the edge of a cliff. But I'll definitely dive in for you, or be down there to catch you.

And I do. I go the distance.

I don't like giving this advice because it self destruct too.

Put it this way. When they regret, you'll still be there right? To be their anchor.

If they risk losing something way too big. Then help them put it away. Somehow. Someway. Make it clear for them. Smack some light into them if you have to. T_T

*pats kitty* good girl

Not everyone is strong enough to provide such support to others.

sorry cant do it..

i dunno how to classify that, definately not suicide.
but as a fren, sometimes you really just don wan to see them doin this to themself.
how long can u be his/her anchor?
how much can he/she rely on you?
what if there's no turning back?
will u wake up 1 day and said, i shud have done more?

I know. Which is why I say it depends.

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Added on April 16, 2009, 2:10 amA cutter?

Aren't these questions you should ask yourself? Only you can tell how much you can take and how long you can stay.
Of course there are no undos in life. We carry the scars of our decisions. It is whether we learn from it or not that builds us stronger.
Then why won't you ask yourself now, how much more can you do? Sometimes we don't realize that it is the smallest things that matter.

You're being to hard on yourself. We don't live to change others.

This post has been edited by MauveMarionette: Apr 16 2009, 02:10 AM

As a friend, all you can do is provide guidance and support. You can't force a person to make a choice, if they want to make a bad choice that is up to them. Just be prepared to catch them when they fall.

haih...
sometimes, we just gonna let go and let it drift away...
we cant be hero to everyone... i guess..

*pats, smiling* You're a friend, not a hero. Don't try to be one.

Take care of yourself first. Because you need the courage to catch them when they need you most.

thanks...
i do what i can.. the rest leave it to GOD knows what will happen...
thanks marion,
thanks guys...

*hugs* get some sleep alright. God bless you. and your friend.

Marion needs to turn in too, I think I'm catching a fever myself.

G'night all. Sugary dreams.

u too.. sleep tight...
sweet dreams...

morning SC

Morning Broke

Morning SC

おはよう!

Morning everyone!~ :3