got demand, but no one wants to write one

how do you know there is?

few pages in this topic got girls asking

I kinda of agree with that...-__-"...how bout looks? Any opinion people?

The only thing that really matters is finding the person right for you. have you ever seen a couple that you think the guy doesn't match the girl or vice versa, that is because looks doesn't matter.

it depends on how you tackle and what kind of girl you tackle.easy or hard to get

I am having a skype session with a couch - how to get gals, anyone interested PM me your skype info. Thanks

dont spam la.

your previous thread also KO already. still spam like this somemore?

you think your coach is what, expert girl tackler with professional record of tackling 100 girls in 1 month?

I am just posting about what this thread is meant - to get girls, why you care so much about my couch? Please don't post with stupidity. I am here just to offer help that can be meant so much to people who need it. I cant help with your organ problem, you can go see doctor about that.

Cheers mate, to those who PM me, hope you enjoy the skype session.

Not to rub it in, but you're promoting something that is not accountable for, in view of such secrecy and stuffs.

Not forgetting spamming.

you're having a skype session with a couch!?!?! Holy shit, that must be one advanced couch

That pro can teach you how to play the game, but that doesn't mean you'll get the girl you want in your life. Nonetheless, congrats on learning one aspect of the dating scene.

Look? those who rly cares about look 1st are really dumb lor in my opinion.

No matter how good lookin that guy is,how beautiful that girl is after 40-50 yrs also become Lao Ah pek,Lao Cha Bo la.

somemore hor u never see his/her ugly side,everyone got ugly side de mah.

megan fox,edward cullen, never fart meh,they never dig her nose meh,they also will pangsai and lausai,
everyone does that wadd..

never show nia..when u live together with him/her,eventually u will find his/her not that good lookin anymore.
so what is left is the love for the heart and personality lor.

so dont judge a book by its cover

it's all aboutt "FEELINGS & BUTTERFLIES!"

This post has been edited by Queenfreak: Mar 8 2010, 06:43 PM

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This post has been edited by chuanway: Nov 1 2012, 09:08 PM

u are a joker... dude... if sharing experiance really make a diff..then every 1 out there will be going out with hot chicks ~ a outcome of relationship depends on how u treat others... how u deal with things ~ in a way to say.. ur personality makes the diff.. not other ppls experiance ~

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Added on March 12, 2010, 2:18 pmlmao dupe... its ur attitude tat counts ! not ur calculation ! lolz!

This post has been edited by wilson1988: Mar 12 2010, 02:18 PM

Hi,
New here. Actually stumbled across while googling for an IC jpg. Have not been back here for more than a decade and without new IC I might not be able to renew my Passport to the terms I wish. It's a problem since Malaysia does not accept dual nationality. So I decide to stay Malaysian and has to go through this hassle of travel and ID doccuments.
Just to say that you all have a jewel here with Silverhawk. Very sound fundamentals and his opinions are best suited in this country.
Read his posts again and look at the person behind it. Those are the characters that will attract a partner. Whether another similar relationship will last forever, it is not conclusive - takes two to do a tango.
Security( financial ), though not mention, I believe with his qualities, it should not be a problem. I have yet to see a normal woman who would go for a hobo or anyone without a steady job.
His sense of humor.
Not quick to anger.
Listening power
Way of expression or writing to you.
solid fundamental wisdom in this subjet.
Leadership - not dictatorship.
These are the things I found reading through his posts.

I believe these things will attract the opposite sex.

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Personally, on others topics about changing to suit someone else, I think it is not easy. You will find yourself falling back to old habits after a long period.
-Unless you have a spiritual transformation.
A lot of those tech from books are good for short term gains but unlikely to help you sustain a long term relationship

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I am a financial entrepreneur. I believe in historical data to project the future market movement. Same as like we dig deep into the frozen ground in the Artic to bring up rods of frozen data to model a probable cycle of the future.
So let's apply it to ourselves.
Who or what am I ?
Take sometime and jolt it on a piece of paper.
What your mum dislikes? Then your dad.
What your mum likes? Then your dad.
How makes them happy? What is important to them? Expectations on themselves.
How do they react when they are angry? etc
Try to note down all their way of behaviour. In anger, in deep problems etc
Do that quietly with deep thoughts.
Then look at yourself. See what similarities and differences.
This will help you to see yourself and also those hidden traits of yourself that are not so obvious.
You will finally have a list of what you are looking for in your friendships and partner. You will also know yourself. With that you have a CLEAR list to scratch of the women that will be attracted to you that you should not pay attention to.
Eventually when you find the one you think is right, make her do the same list with her parents.
Then you have a list of where you will click well and where you will have potential problems - and seek a way to communicate with each other on those difficult points.
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Try to ADD to what you already are that can improve certain habits. Not try to change to suit.
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There is never a perfect formular or a set rule. It depends on certain region of the world. In the East block and former USSR, the 70s , 80s generation might not be attracted by what is in the first post other than financial security. It was real tough times in those days. You have to be there away from Moscow to see those dire times. If a women picks you or vice versa, she will summit almost completely. The choice is then in your hands to make her happy or hell for her. Many Russian men gave them hell - Vodka !!! is the problem. Women were often beaten.
Today's generation is becoming more "cunning" there !!!
In certain parts of S. America the same applies - financial secrity is priority.

Oops !!
4 am here !!
Good luck to those who are searching

This post has been edited by 2222fx: Mar 20 2010, 10:53 AM

how to get a girl which flirts ?

If you are looking the one WHICH flirts
Try this

http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_1361247.html

i totally disagree on that because most girls always say is feelings, personality and all that is the only thing they look for but looks for me is definitely important...

1. if you are looking for a 1st date and you are given an ah beng or a decent looking guy, are you gonna go for a guy who looks like ah beng or someone who wears a polo t and jeans and a decent look?
2. looks/appearances always carries a significant image to 3/10th of a person's personality that is because how one dresses would reflect on their hygiene
3. 1st impression is always important... INITIATIVE! strike an image to a person's mind is important as well... if your 'standard' isn't strong enough to make an impact to make him/her remember you then how would the next step continue?

you don't want someone who dress in t-shirt and jeans to a wedding dinner right?

everyone has its ugly side and no1 would know until about half a year into the relationship... and all that comes later on... no reason to 'not' judge a book by its cover... its human nature

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Added on March 24, 2010, 7:38 pmisn't financial security applies to most parts of the world? (ie. cities/modern societies) but way of thinking is different from other parts of the world as I know it to be true. there is too many variables to determine what and how to get a girls/guys. but i believe in the theory of trail and error and therefore i always would try because without trying you will never know the outcome even you predicted it to be 100% failure. and without trail, you will regret, that is why i try not to regret anything i do in my lifes.

most Malaysian aren't exposed and dependant. Maybe due to our Asian culture but after all this years of standing and falling I realized a lot of Malaysians follow a linear line instead of branching out different possibilities and thinking out of the box. (ie. some parts of the world like India/Bangladesh, men hold hands same as to our understanding that girls holding hands during shopping and hanging out time) instead of being open to these possibilities, our influence from Western culture has made us accepting Western culture as norm and others as being 'abnormal'.

you just have to be yourself and not someone your partner wants you to be... its difficult especially when you need to compromise but nothing is easy..

am i doing some preaching? i seem to be doing it nowadays

This post has been edited by hironobu85: Mar 24 2010, 07:38 PM

Sure looks are important, just not as important as you think.

Girls base most of their decision on emotions, not that much on rational thought or looks. Sometimes you'll see an average person having more success hitting on women than a good looking guy, why? Cause the average person typically has had to learn how to attract women not based on his looks alone, that alone makes him more attractive.

I speak from personal experience when I say looks aren't that important.

Yea, don't get me wrong, i know that look is not on top
but the way they interpret looks makes me think that they don't really say what they think but what people wants to hear...

Totally agree on your perspective of an average person, because I also think that hot girls with average guys and vice versa is quite the norm because an average person has to make up for their flaws in order to attract the opposite...

I don't know about society nowadays but it makes me feel that guys are slowly turning girls into lesbians because of the way they see the opposite... prizes/challenges... because a lot of times they go super nice to the girl but after they got them they become arrogant and turn back to their normal selves and cheat on the girl because of men's ego and thinking of 'since i can kao this chun chick then i can kao other more chun chicks as well and then they cheat on them and make them couldn't trust guys... and in the end making it difficult to even approach them
hrm.....looks like i am finding excuses for my failures? hahaha

~h1ro