The first thing I want to make clear is this, do not chase girls or women around like a lost puppy. If you do you will find yourself getting rejected far more than you deserve. We as human beings can be a little weird at times, we generally dismiss things we can have easily and go after things that are harder get.

I do not want to go into psychology in a major way, but suffice is to say, that you and I both know that this is the case. Let's talk examples; I hope that I will be able to illustrate my point properly.

In terms of sales and marketing, if we were launching a new product it would be all about the message and presentation. Secondly, it is another well known fact, that the best sales people in the world with the worst product will always outsell the worst sales people in the world with the best product.

Why, you may ask? They know how to sell, the product is not important it is how they sell the product. To back up this point, how often have seen not so attractive guys - with very beautiful women? These guys know what to look for, they know how to communicate and more importantly they know what that person wants.

They simply do not get into a position where a girl would say, "You're not my type" If they did, they know how to reverse the roles, they reverse it by giving themselves more time to get it back on track. In a bar for example, they may answer this charge by saying, I understand, however do you know the band that is playing.

All they are basically doing is diffusing the rejection by not harping on it, she is saying this because she is uncomfortable and now you need to make her comfortable by not emphasizing the rejection or what she is uncomfortable about.

Let me make another point, it is generally understood, that when people say no, they are saying no based on what they have been presented or told up to that point, what you have to do is present it better and give more information. But you can never do this if she is uncomfortable.

I hope this makes sense to you, to put it simply, you have to sell yourself, you may get rejected initially but that is more than likely because you have not convinced them enough yet.

Guy's if you are serious about getting the girl of your dreams then you need to seriously work on solid techniques to achieve your goal. If you know what a girl is thinking it is far easier to approach her.

If You want to learn the tested psychological secrets of the female mind given to you by a woman because after all only a woman truly knows what a woman wants.

Wanna know what a woman wants/think? google is your best bud

This is in the realm of "techniques" which I did not want to touch, because I wanted to touch the fundamentals. If you want to sell your product, you have to know your product, if you don't know your product, you can't make a successful sales pitch

Most people, don't know their product.

I have better options compare to google.

Stalkin boleh masuk penjara

agreed in this thats y theres so many 'how to attract a girl' or 'why....' etc this kind of questions in CC =.=

Yahoo? hahaha

Die ni bkn nak stalk, die nk transsex ni hahahah

A woman point of views, a guy should have

Self respect, come on if the woman does not like you move on. Why waste time after someone who simply does not want you? They are million of women who will find you unique and attractive.

Move on to the next best thing.

I agree!

I am one of the best example. I am ugly like sh*t but still i manage to hang out with hot chicks who are models plus i can get them to my bed easily.

The rule here is:
1. Be yourself
2. Polite & gentle towards girls
3. Must be sweet & romantic
4. Never ever underestimate yourself (Be Confident)
5. Be creative when proposing to girls

Cheers

it takes a strong person to do that because it is easy said but not easy to be done.

so learn to be strong.

seriously? check my case then. haha. anyone can advice me on my confident level !!

There is only 1 rule, pursue persistently. If they accept then congratulations! If they reject, pester them or threathen in the worst case scenario. As long as you get her, all is well~

How come no one open a thread: How to get the guy you want!, Yes, the secret is here??

Very easy, just show that you are interested. If you care for him, he will fall for you haha

maybe its easier to get guys then gals

I don't think so.

It is true, as long as you look attractive. You can score the guy you want ^^

Cause women don't like to compete

So, so wrong.

cause its not use. different individuals different case differs whatever you need to do. This thread ain;t gonna work for all girls either.

Agreed w/ noob13. Pls, no compete = no fun d

So you share secrets that give you an edge in the competition, so things are fair?