Go ahead, the girls will love you for it

orite..
will finish by Friday/Saturday
haha
need approval n pre-comment from LYN forumers first..

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 22 2009, 02:35 PM

This topic is interesting. Nice one hawk.

May I add something?

The problem with guys are they are never settled with what they have. They always listen to their friends and keep on coming with lame excuses to shun the girl that care most of him.

Maybe He's Just Not That Into You can give a few hints. I do think that the movie is quite resourceful for both men and women.

Never "settle" with what you have, and never choose a person just because they care for you.


This post has been edited by silverhawk: May 23 2009, 03:11 PM

Well of course with the exception of certain requirements.

This post has been edited by boxsystem: May 23 2009, 04:24 PM

and what would those exceptions be?

aih silverhawk..
finished my editing for the topic i made...
change the whole thing...
don't want to do how to get the man you want!
drives me crazy
seriously..
it drives me nuts by just thinking about it..
i almost switch sides..

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 23 2009, 06:00 PM

does that mean choosing one who doesnt care for u? does that mean risking being abandoned by ur spouse in times of turbulence?

No, that means you choose one that you are attracted to/like/love that ALSO cares for you. If you don't really like that person but accept them because they care for you, you will likely cheat on her or break her heart sooner or later. Its a disaster waiting to happen.

trust me, he/she will earn ur love and respect in time as u'll feel more and more appreciative of how caring and supporting ur spouse is. unless u have a strong dislike towards some1 then thats a diff story.

That can work, but its not something I would recommend because you're taking a gamble about whether you will come to love them or not. Accepting someone like that is incredibly selfish, because you're taking advantage of their love for you.

Thats true. But think again, just because u love some1 for now does NOT mean u'll love em forever either

That makes you preposition even worse

err i dont geddit sorry

You're basically being ridiculous. If you say there's no guarantee that you'll love a person forever, that makes your idea that you can "grow to love someone", even more stupid. Because even if you learnt to love that partner, you can still change your feelings for them. It might as well have not happened.

that is not for us to know..
nothing is certain...
u will love them forever or u will not
depends on the person to continue his relationship or stop it...

then learn..
u will know someday..

This post has been edited by mrmagic21: May 24 2009, 02:53 PM

technically saying theres no such thg as guarantee in love. When u start to grow to love someone, that kind of love is solely built on the foundation of trust,personality and loyalty. THAT is what contributes to a long-lasting marriage. u dont love some1 jz because ur attracted to him/her.

Love also includes attraction and chemistry, without which a relationship DOES NOT LAST. Trust? Personality? Loyalty? Guess what, you can get that all with friends What differentiates your friends from your partner?

Its true that there is no guarantee in love, and that applies to anything way you attain that love. Its stupid for you to assume that people who are attracted to each other will not have the same foundation as someone who learns to love someone. The dynamics of human relationships are quite complex, and I don't think you have the ability to decipher or understand it yet.

not that he doesn't understand, he does actually. He understood it differently and it is different from one usual understanding of love.
There is much to know about love, but we will not able to decipher or understand it fully.

We can just understand it to the level we called 'marriage and happily ever after' and the rest of it as we know either good or bad. We can decipher or understand love, but mankind making it hard for us to understood things. The difference we have between us and god is too much and from the point we know of it is not even have reach a quarter of understanding towards love.

That's why the brain is 'locked' inside a thick skull in order for humans not to understand more than they should and that's why god created people from various kind, to ensure the different points of view they have to unite then it's love. Love requires unity from all the people around us to able to understand the 'love' we know, not just by a couple of people or some shrink that thinks they have better life in their relationship. But for now, love is what love is; Sex

meh i can write some more but i don't want to mess people's topic. Hope you understand what I wrote here C-Note

stuff a pair of socks down the front of your pants and thrust!

them girls love that