my gf cheated me by going out with guy hugging and kissing, but after i discovered she promised me that she will never repeat her mistake again.. But last week i found out a guy messaged her by calling her baobei, but she said there's nothing between them.. i forgave her once again.. but i am suffering now cause she studying far away for me.. wat u all will do if u are me? should i forgive her?

hahhaha, dump her, its aint worth ur time, trust me, ve been assisting a friend who his gf f*& somebody else and promised the same thing. Later, got betrayed again. Its aint worth it man. my friend have become 'wacky' and revengeful eversince. Just dump her, she's not worth it

trust is a f*cking important thing to me...once betrayed, i will nvr EVA trust that person again. but its different for everybody....and its not like i've nvr tried forgiving....i tried holding on for 2 yrs..but at the end of the day, i realize i can never forget it...and so i broke up...

wish u all the best

but then again, gurls these days are the one doing most of the cheating...not guys anymore...

TS, I think this is not the right place for you to post.
BTW, if you really love her, you'll gives yourself 100 of reasons to forgive her. It's depends on how much trust did you gave her.
In her mind she might be thinking to give herself another option. Show your love and care to her. Let her feel that being with you is the right option.

she's cheating on u...they are still having an affair..just let her go..dont hurt urself...

You sure what you're talking about?

Dont trust her anymore! you deserve someone whois better than her! trust me! You can do it!

It is all depends to individual

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Happy Holidays.

so sad...i guess TS was so down...and he forgot about the rules

Break up is the path to ur freedom......and out from sad world

One can always forgive someone, but one can always remember it!

no more 2nd chance bro.. juz leave her n me teman u find a better wan...

Listen to "Too Phat - Just A Friends"

That is my comment about this topic

just forget it and leave her. it happens to me also, my gf far from me. and she cheat me, she always go to club and enjoy with a guy. she so hot. after 4 month, she leave me and not tell me want break. so sad. but reach now, i always love her. but i cant do anything. i not smart in love. need learn love with someone. actually, dont trust girl and many girls are liar. this is my comment la about women. i dont know comment u all about women.

Got to agree on this. Theres once and twice, trice will always come along. Sometimes, it dont mean that you love someone and will forgive anything. Maybe once cause people do make mistakes, but why more? If you giving love, of course you want love in return. Who on earth have the right mind that want to give love and get shet in return?

If you think that because you're a guy and you forgive your girl for banging your car into a tree. That's gentelmen and forgiving. If you think because you're a guy and forgive your girl for banging other guys again and again. That's abusing the theme of gentelmen and foolish. Well, all above is only my personal view. It's up to yourself really. Good luck.

Once bitten twice shy, she was 2-timing you. Hugging and kissing may be too much.

Get rid of her and move on ...

True friend no cheat, somemore she is your GF....think about it.

Have you ever heard "Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me."?

Chinese said "yat chi bat zong....bak chi bat yong"

once started a lie...forever the lies will go on