im married for 1 year plus, has a 1-year old baby boy

i guess im just being sensitive, but you know what, you cant tell someone how to feel

how do i feel when i ask for a kiss from him & he makes a tired face?

how do i feel when we sleep next to each other but he turns the other way? and when i ask him to turn & hug me, he always says he's not comfy sleeping on his sides?

how do i feel when he keeps saying no? even though it has been 2 weeks..

how do i feel when i tell him that im embarrased even to ask for it, and more when he says no..and he gets angry & cover his face with his pillow

how do i feel when i do everything around the house & he just sits and watch tv and tells me how tired his day has been..

how do i feel when i cry & he..simply ignores. even turn his back on me & sleep..

after so long, he keeps getting angry at me because of the way i feel, i think finally im feeling..numb

please comfort me...since he does not..anymore

This post has been edited by celestra: Mar 27 2009, 08:42 PM

if i marry him..he's worth it

thanx, i need this kind of support

coz i cant live without him, i only..need assurance

girls eh?

oh sorry i went offline after i replied ur msg

mm i guess we can just talk here, im afraid he can check my inbox

would upset him if ke knows i talk to others about us

thx for your concern..

well he cant be tired for 1 year right ..ive tried that oledi but hmm maybe my cooking & massaging not so good hehe..anyway thanx smacky

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:06 pmhaha you make me laugh..what a direct answer..thx king

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:12 pmyeah u got my meaning..we have sit down & talk for 1001 times..usuallu ok for a while, then happen again

today i havent been well since i woke up, then he sent me off to work, i waited for him to call to check how i was doing. but he never did. so finally i lost it and sent him an sms saying 'yes im fine, dont worry'...he immediately called and sounded so guilty...you know what i mean??

i think he loves me but have you ever heard about 'guys in comfort zone'??

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:13 pmim okay today. better since ive written the first msg. thanks to all of you.

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:14 pmi think he's in comfort zone..like he knows ill never leave him so he takes me for granted. this is the most normal problem, but until now, no cure in the world grrrrr!!

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:17 pmim 28, we both are. and nope, we didnt get married because of that. i was still a virgin on our first nite...oohh too much info haha!

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:19 pmvinlu, wacky angel, thx for the suggestion of going to physiology/counsellor..but i prefer to settle it between us, guided by advises from others

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:21 pmyup we did that a lot, ok for a while then not

im also like a roller coaster, sometimes in a bliss, sometimes feel like screaming as loud as i can

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:23 pmyou know what, thats a good idea. stop depending on him like that. thanks!

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Added on March 25, 2009, 9:29 pmand to others, thanks for your advises. i really feel better now that ive read all your messages

i love him, and ill do everything to win him back! (even that means id have to stop clinging like i always do)

wish me luck!

This post has been edited by celestra: Mar 25 2009, 09:29 PM

thank you all for your advises..its good to finally speak things out, it cleared my head!

we are going along better now, and this sunday my baby will turn 1. we are both ecstatic about it.

bye now