u luv her n dont wish to lie to her!
are u gonna tell da truth?
or beautiful lies?

cheong = visit prostitution

This post has been edited by blek: Mar 23 2009, 11:05 PM

cheong?

wat is cheong?

cheong???

don't tell her

This post has been edited by ammaryusoff: Mar 23 2009, 11:06 PM

Say no of course...! sometimes a lie can make you a happy life

This post has been edited by hamtaro98: Mar 23 2009, 11:29 PM

go spa la.. now not heng brothel already..

cheong = visit prostituition

be honest. then up to her la wanna accept or not.

Lie to her darn it. Sometimes the truth hurts so never tell her the truth about your "cheong" adventures.

Be honest la..

If she found out u lie to her more worst..

if my bf tell me that i sure go

..and after that, go for AIDS screening.

oomg, who i should listen to?

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Added on March 23, 2009, 11:15 pmare u a girl? u sound like u wont mind!

if he only went b4 he meet u?

This post has been edited by blek: Mar 23 2009, 11:15 PM

Obviously me. You do not want to lose her do ya? Unless she is the most understanding girl in the world she'll leave you. Do not f**kin tell her about your "cheong" adventures. If you regret going on your cheong adventures then do not do so again, but do not tell her either.

i vote for be honest. must sound regret la. if you say enjoy then i will be angry.

vkeong?

wat it have to do with vkeong?

Jamien you're seriously telling me that you wouldn't leave a guy if he tells you that he has been visiting prostitutes as long as he is honest?

Sometimes people do not want to hear the truth or they may not be capable of handling the truth.

just say no.

since i don't do whores.

i would say yeah and those were the heaven time of my life.... something u can never be as good at

This post has been edited by Flizzardo: Mar 23 2009, 11:22 PM

For sure I'm a girl.. Not I dont mind.. If it happen before I knew my bf den nvm la.. past is already past ma..

BUT if he did it after knew me den he surely KO

answer:

i lost count

Did u check ur AIDS? Btw cheong is wat language?

then have u girls ask ur bf?
how do they answer?

I will said NO even I cheong before.Girl always said she prefer u honest but when u honest to them on this then they will blame you de. So my conclusion is keep inside ur heart enough.

This is true also.. I do prefer my bf lie to me and DON'T let me found out.. Else I'll

I would prefer he'd be honest than lie to me. Then, get him checked for HIV.

if no HIV ?

if HIV ?

discrimination.
lolx

dai sei

Depend on how much i love him.. if i do really love him n yes i hope he dun lie n tell me the true but half of it can b lie la.. eg.

guy: yes, i went b4 (true)
girl: how many times?
guy: not tat frequent maybe once a year (lie)

For safe,don't cheong lo..Have a stable partner enough lo...kena STD or HIVｍａｋｅ　ｕｒ　ｏｗｎ　ｌｉｆｅ　ｏｒ　ｐｐｌ　ｌｏｖｅ　ｕ　ｓｕｓａｈ　ｓａｊａ．

which spa offer such serv ??
hmmmm

say never

honest or not u're still dead

no... Hell no...

Never admit! Its a trap!

so wat is ur answer?
make up ur mind girl!

hii kiki

blek: reminds me the movie "Men Suddenly in Black" aka 大丈夫

if you asked her: "dear, am i the best you ever had in bed?" would you rather she tells you that her ex boyfriend was bigger and has better skills than you, or would you rather she told you a little lie?

I prefer her to lie. If it was me, cuz im the jealous type of guy. HAHA , i cant face the truth.

i dont think that matters much to a girl, bigger or better skills.. to a girl.. wont have much effect on her, but rather with the person she really love. if she really love that person, wat size what skill oso she will enjoy it. unless its just a fling/ONS then maybe it matters. but we're talking bf gf here.. so..

u is fail

DIE ALSO DONT SAY YES

Will not die la, the girl will only be furious and if u have the skills to pujuk her. Sure lepas one la.

but ts , y you need go to cheong?

iF yes juz say yes la.. watz the big deal here ?? Cant expect Him to be pure virgin.
If me i will juz say ok, b4 u go, but after this dont do again la... Simple.

seriously confess to her la
realy if she find out you lied to her afterward
it'd be more worst

no don't frck'n tell her

understanding woman is understand why you lie to them, so you no need to tell them. treat them well then its enough.

inconsiderate woman you don't need to tell them i guess you know why.

This post has been edited by 9876789: Mar 24 2009, 11:41 AM

im always honest with my girl.

lolz. u really believe that?

yeah, love counts but girls also want something bigger and better.

maybe your gf just wanted to spare your feelings.

This post has been edited by Chris25: Mar 24 2009, 12:10 PM

Better don't tell her, else in future you will suffer... she might think that you have visit prostitution before, so might be go again in future... sometime a lie can make life different... dont be dreaming that lady can forgive you after you visit prostitute..

男不风流妄少年

dont ever lie ...
i dont like taking the pressure of lying since i have to remember wat i lied ... i have too many things to think and consider in my working day already ...

off topic ..
never ever go for prostitution ...
if one day i found out that my son does that .. i will kill him ... ...

just tell her the truth lo...
my ex told me tat he went for prostitue last time...
n also explained tat he was unmature on that time..

and i dun feel anythg... haha.. its acceptable..

just imagine what if ur gf told u she went for one night stand ...

same feeling more or less

now feel it

my gf got ask me this kind of question also. even i say "Never" visit prost. and she also doesn't belive in me.



haih~ tell the truth also doesnt belive in me.. what should i do? anyway... find prost. = higher chances to get infected with HIV or AIDS.
Condom? doesnt really trust it anyway. for those often or once in a blue moon find prost. i would suggest you guys better go for a medical check up.

its important to prevent yourself and your love one get infected with those unwanted disease.

haha ..
gals may be a very complicated multi-cellular organism .. ... unlike us .. when we say 'yes' we mean yes ..but for them , its different ... i failed sometimes .. ..

ok .. back to topic..
condom is never 100% trustable .. its juz something to lower the chances of infection .. but some STD does transmit even with condoms... so ..why risk urself and ur loved ones by going prostitution ? ...

Never tried before since I don't need them. Better do with own gf la

Just punch at their stomach kau2 and say who's the boss now b****

when she ask you questions like this .. its best to just lie . no point being honest, it will get you nowhere lol. honesty is not the best policy in this case haha

is this the best option you can think of ?
cmon .. i know you can do better ...

If you lie, i hope you have a good memory to avoid future slip ups. Women have a knack to remember what people say months and even years after.

If you don't lie, chances are that she can get angry. It is her right to get angry.

What about her leaving you? Frankly, i'd say its the best if she leaves you - Why? Because for someone who is immature at not accepting another person's past - better not to stay with them.

Everyone has one time or another made not so ideal choices. So yeah at one time, an individual was a little rash, out of control, slept around abit.

A girl who leaves a guy because he's poked around other fishing pond is immature and likewise
A guy who leaves a girl just because she's not a virgin due to some impulsive decision is also immature.

Grow up. Learn to accept people for who they are, both good and bad.

Credit.

if me i would say

dear hor i got use condom very safe dun worry geh

hoho very understanding . . . must find this type of gf

my gf always tell me go curi makan remember to wipe clean clean come back and dont let her know

mayb she did da same also!

dont tell her the truth la..
just say, "i rather tfk than spending a few hundred bucks on a prostitute.
but with you currently, i prefer make love to you than tfk. and spend that few hundred bucks on a romantic dinner with you."
sure she will love what u have said.

Nolah i won't do that. But in my fantasy world i might try it . If this question arise, I will definitely lie to her. But if I love her, I will find a suitable time and let her know about my past with full regret. After that is up to her to accept me or not. You see at this point guys must think the worse first. So that if she dump you, we don't feel really bad.

Tell her this "Who ask you never show up in my life earlier? Then I wouldn't need to cheong lah!"

haha! good one!

another 1 is "I already stop to cheong since the 1st day I met u"


No matter how,if u wanna cheong...dun end up like Tony Leung Ka Fai in this video



This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Mar 27 2009, 02:37 PM

eu said eu cheong K

erm...nope

i told my gf i went to massage, but i didn't tell her is pingpong style 1....

if you go before then just tell her the truth lor diao...dats the past ma as long as you dun go cheong when youre together with her enuf liao lor...
my gf know everything about my past le ...i dun have to think of funny stories or lies ...she will forgiv you if she luvs you...

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Added on April 2, 2009, 3:21 pmmahem you should tell her you go pingpong lor..instead of pingpong outside better teach your gf how to pingpong...KARMA remember dat my fren...

This post has been edited by yeezai: Apr 2 2009, 03:21 PM

Ts this topic should be put in kopitiam not at cupid corner, you topic doesn't make any senses of sentimental problem but just a free chating topic.

I just say: Never.

u try to go to BUkit Bintang at nite....those pimps will guide u n show u!

lie to her man..its for a gud cause

how many guy never makan outside
or will not makan if got chances....

grow up ladies... dont believe when someone said you are the only puss they bonked..

This post has been edited by ed0gawa: Apr 2 2009, 07:23 PM

Sometimes, its better not to tell

And the above statement came from a girl herself

I'll say yes i go cheong b4 many many many times.........

Mati-mati dont admit. Dont be stupid. Dont create the unnecessary problem. If not, everytime u go out with your frens...she will think u go 'Cheong'. Believe me. Girl is a complicated and trouble mammal.

depends on how much i love her, if half-half, then lie, but swear to god i'll never go choeng. hiv ma

You already said dont wish to lie to her lol.

If i am the guy, i wouldnt lie to her cause i dont want her to lie anything to me too although it hurts to know the bad truth.
If i am the girl, i hope my bf to be honest to me too. Whats the point of protecting her happiness when you've just broken the trust in a relationship ?

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Added on April 7, 2009, 2:33 amBeing honest = create problems. You must be a big liar ?

Have some respect please

This post has been edited by ~Mew~: Apr 7 2009, 02:33 AM

Hell no.....then she will think u as a gigolo

Depend, think carefully 1st then u answer.

I'll tell her the truth. She ask have i masturbated & will i have pre-marital sex, i just answer honestly. She did the same too.

But about cheong-ing i have to think twice.

QFT

Type 1: To those girls that say lie; you can be honest with them --> cos they live for the present & future.

Type 2: To those girls that say be honest, you better lie --> cos they are sentimental & think the world is idealistic. You admit you "cheong", contradicts with their world perception & your image is scarred for life.

*Normally girls type 2 is more cuter/adorable than girls type 1.

You reply "I've eaten plenty of chee CHEONG fun before."

no...should say tat "I used to eat outside or take away,until when I met u...and now I eat ur cooking everyday"

dun cheong!

why cheong?

just fcuk your gf good enough liao lo! :

Then honestly lie to her la. Settle problem.

then wat if for those who are single and no gf?

Every guy has his own past.

watch porn and fap?

that is what i do oh, when i was single and no gf.

yes, i did think about wanting to cheong, each time i have that thought, i watched porn, fapped then tired then zzz liao.

TS, sometime a lie is better than everything..
Because the truth are so cruel, once the truth went into her mind, she will never ever forgive you.
She will still say:" I will very understanding that you go cheong, no problem."
But in her heart is:" He is so darn dirty"

Refer her to Mistress Happy's Escort Services.
Cheong all you want. She'll understand.

never cheong in my life

STD dont!!