We have considered it.. And we're willing to live with that.. We are getting engaged as soon as I can meet up with her mum. If indeed my wife is unable to conceive we are going to accept it. This is not a decision I make lightly. The doctor has told us the risk, they haven't poisoned us to make this decision. In fact they initially adviced us to keep the child as we seem like a stable couple. But after confering with the family planning therapist and crunching the numbers, we would go into serious debt if any complications arise.

You see, when you go to a family planning therapist, they will give you the raw facts. Not some perfect scenario where your child comes out beautiful and grand. They make allowances for possible complication. Of course they don't assume that the child will be born with every complication in the world but they consider common ailments.

You may think we're being negative but its a cruel world we live in and we must be prepared.

About our house... It is for our future. Me and my gf came from poor families and we were raised on a bare minimum. It was rough on us all and we swore we would never put a child through the suffering we had to endure. With a place to call home, our children will never be without a home and we will be better for it.

But today is the last day for our re-consideration. If anyone is serious about helping, I eagerly await you help.

Hmm. Thank you so much for that suggestion.. I mean no offense when I say this but a flat doesn't seem like a safe place to raise a child. It's unhygienic, tends to be over populated and heights aren't exactly safe for kids later in life when they are running around. Regardless I will try to speak with my GF on this option to see if we can accept raising a child in a flat. Thank you once again for your recommendation.

u forgot the cnn news came out headline

pope say NO to condom usage...

for those who supported TS's decision to abort, your are most concern about his financial stability when a child is born into the world.

And no, I'm not saying that everyone should marry and have a baby young since you are going to have one anyway. What I'm trying to is, TS's already has ONE in his fiancee's tummy, why kill it?

Life's always has its ups and downs and challenges. You can't just run away into hidings or take the easy way out when you face the down times.