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 My GF may be pregnant (Confirmed 4 weeks )

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bbjslee
post Mar 24 2009, 09:35 AM

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QUOTE(ravager877 @ Mar 24 2009, 09:22 AM)
Sigh. You know Pink I really appreciate ur input but you are too emotional. Please calm down. I appreciate ur feedback very much but you are simply looking for reasons to keep the baby. I'm looking at it objectively. Think about it, if I really wanted to destroy this baby I would have stopped replying to this thread by now. This means I'm actively seeking a way to give it a chance.

A lot of you are very simple minded saying that we should not think about the 'What ifs' imagine you buy a car and say to yourself that it wont get into an accident so you dont buy insurance or cause you cant afford insurance. So when accident? You just throw away the car or let it rot in the garage? Contingency plans must exist. It is a fact of life that babies get sick often and that pediatricians are not cheap.

And about moving into a room? Who's gonna take in a young couple with a child? Seriously? Are you even thinking straight? A child who will cry all night long and disturb the other tenants? ARE YOU SERIOUS?

In fact the house we bought was so that we can raise a family. So you want me to throw away ALL OUR HARD EARNED INVESTMENT for a future that is uncertain? Seriously? In this economic crisis where the price of real estate is falling rapidly?

And if you think that 2k per month for a housing loan is too high, u seriously haven't tried buying a house in KL before have you? Grow up and smell the bills.

Those of you who feel that money is so easy to come by, if any complications should arise, will you come to my help? Or you will just say, "Hey not ready, shouldn't have had a child."

And I'm sick of you idiots who say that we didn't take precaution. WE HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ACTIVE FOR A YEAR YOU MORONS. I HAVE BEEN TAKING PRECAUTION. BUT REMEMBER YOUR CONDOM IS ONLY 99% EFFECTIVE. TAKE THE NUMBER OF TIMES WE'VE HAD SEXUAL RELATIONS OVER THE PERIOD OF A YEAR AND YOU CANT BE SURE THAT THE MINUSCULE 1% DIDN'T HAPPEN.

Sigh... To all you people who say 'Use a Condom'. I pray you all get what you deserve....
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In your case is $$$$ vs. Baby. Obviously your chose $$$.
$$$ lost can be earn back.
Life lost can never be earn back.
Both you & your fiancee just too comfortable with your current situation that both you will be afraid to face the challenges ahead.
You're just giving yourself tons of excuse, but have you actually tried searching for a better solution?
For example, refinance your house?
Let the baby stay with your parents or in law?
Cut down on expenses?
Have you actually searched 100 rooms and all of them ban couple with baby?

You might cry a few days over a lost investment & money but, you can cry for life over a lost life.


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