crisis brings the best in everybody.

OK TS. Why until now you think getting ur gf pregnant IS A MISTAKE. Did you thought whether it WAS A MISTAKE before you bedded her ?

Nope, don't shove off responsibility by simply admitting its a mistake, and then abort the baby. You don't go around playing with life.

With arrival of a baby, treat it as a FATE, a path that's destined.

Meeting your gf is a FATE
Having her as your gf is a FATE
Being horny is a FATE
Being horny until she's pregnant is a FATE
Now, the baby is your FATE
Embrace this fate of yours.

Killing innocent life IS NOT solving. Unless you're heartless.

Being "realistic" is murder.

Aborting is for the sake of "can't afford". LOL!

I'm sure regarding buying new gadgets/going for movies/nice restaurant, no need 2nd thoughts... as long as both can be in romantic mood.

When a baby "reluctantly" comes into the picture, starts worry about the "cost" of raising it. I'm sure these couple FAILED/REFUSE to factor out their spending on the "sin stuff".

It's more like refusal to change their lifestyle to accomodate the new life. Pure irresponsibility.

What is almost sure will happen if the baby aborted. The female will more or less regret her whole life thinking about her action, and this might caused depression as the years go by... weeping for the unborn. Hope TS will matured up enough to handle her future wife and provide emotional support there for her.

So killing a life is justified because the "realistic" world doesn't allow him to be born (yet)? What a shame.

When a chance of life is taken away, it CAN never be undone.

When the confused couple find their current (financial) situation can't allow it, WORK HARDER for gods sake. Their predicament can be changed.

Those who live prudently with 2/3 children (some grown up and having proper education) PUT A SHAME to those would refuse one baby because the "cant cope with the future". What a shame to mankind indeed. Sex-crazed humans with realistic mind will soon doomed mankind with their way of life and "twisted teachings" to the future generations.

Why not think of those who are disabled, harder to find job to even feed themselves? Why not think of those who unable to bear children? WHile some of us here, with limbs in good condition (and "highly" educated ) ... become to ignorant on how precious a life could be. A single decision simply terminate A LIFE.


It's a matter of making lifestyle changes and adjustments and pure hard work, which I believe some sexed couples REFUSE to take up the challenge, in fear of losing their "comfortable" baby-less lifestyle , splurging on unnecessary stuff and food. While they're at it, they never thought about "inability" to buy a better gadget/car if their salary doesn't increase .

Yes, indeed. they can abort it , since its their own flesh and blood. Outsiders have no rights to judge them. They're young and naive. The baby is a burden, hence to reclaim their happiness and continue the preferred lifestyle. Everybody happy.

But deep down inside, any decent humans (strangers and relative alike) would really PRAY and HOPE there are no more of these cases. And if such cases happen, the "perpetrators" must not be encouraged on to do the abortion (as if its the right decision always ).

And of course, let the remorse sets in after they turn 40, perhaps? Before that, life is an oyster to these people.

Seriously, the male is doing his spouse a BIG BIG damage to her body and mind. I hope he can cope with her depression/remorse for "killing" her child prematurely when they gets older and more mature. Who cares about his lifestyle and financial condition. maybe TS should get a course on "handling" her wife emotions and console her always if the topic regarding their "unborn baby" crops up once in a while in the near future.

This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Mar 24 2009, 12:13 PM