hi,
I hope you are still reading this though you've made up your midn. I'm some one who have experienced this. I went for abortion many years back. However, this has stayed in our mind (me & my husband) till now. Of course we're trying not to think and talk about it but we know it's always there for the rest of our life.

you know, I see all your replies and in fact I don't see any problems for your to raise a child. also i don't think your gf's mum is a barrier. To be frank, after abortion, it'll create a bad memory to your gf/fiancee. it's true. till now i still remember the scene. it's too crucial and everytime i think of it, i feel pain in my heart. I asked myself, I'm an educated person and I was grown in a healthy family. why do i have to go through this? Sigh.. things over.

if you have made your final decision, well just go ahead by bearing all the consequences. However I do have 1 thing to advise you. before the operation, make sure she does not consume any food. after the operation, make sure she had enough rest for at least 3 days continuously. you have to be there with her these few days without leaving her. she'll be weak and emotionally depress at that time. make sure to comfort her all the time and of course she has to be treated as if she's having confinement and it has to be 1 month. Yes, it's 1 month. She has to be careful when come to food intake. Let her eat vinegar pork or others similar to get rid of the wind.

Hope this helps. Good luck.