ts, i kind of envy your situation in a way. i would love to be a dad now, even if it's by accident, but my wife and i decided to wait for another 2 to 3 years before we try for a baby. she's only 24 and i want her to live her life before she gets tied down with a kid.

i understand your decision, and the heaviness of the burden it brings. i wish you and your gf all the best. here's to a speedy recovery.