Hmm I don't think you quite understand it.

These men are not necessarily rich, but they have the attitude that makes it possible to be rich and that's how people get rich in the first place. Its not they are already rich that's why they have the confidence. No, its because they believe they will make eventually make it and nothing is going to stop them from reaching that goal. THAT is the attitude that attracts women. With or without money that attitude is attractive to women.

There are lots of people I know, they're not making tons of money, probably 3-4k a month but they can afford a family of 2-3 kids. The most important thing, is that they're happy. How is that possible? Because they set their own goals and how they wish to live their life, and they find a partner that shares the same goals.


Joke? Its true

This post has been edited by silverhawk: Apr 29 2009, 06:40 PM

I'm proud that my girlfriend doesn't have the same thinking as her.

To TS, you'll regret when your husband fooling around and just take you as his "extra" maid in the house OR he can abuse you as well.

Just do the house work,be obedient to me and don't ask questions. =)

sorry ezra.. i think you have it the wrong way around.... character comes first then the money.... see u all after lunch anyway before i elaborate further

so far that hasnt happen yet, if you look at track record I' was suffering beginning in year 2, with current hubby 6 years I'm still enjoying my life

well then good luck and go on enjoying your life

of coz! I'm doing just that I know I irritate you, but you're not seeing from my point of view.

@moorish:
*touches wood*

do stand by your hubby in not so good times (if such an event is to occur) as he needs it the most.

otherwise, enjoy life.

This post has been edited by Deimos Tel`Arin: Apr 29 2009, 07:18 PM

Well whatever the circumstances, if I've taken choice no.1 I would be in that hard times for 10 years, at least I escape for 6 yrs right.

lol you'll be a good wife...wonder how will mine be..gg~

Let me ask you this: Which came first, the chicken or the egg?
Same thing.
But i guess it can be agreed upon that money and (attractive/desirable) character comes together.

Thanks for bringing up the point. Personally, I think it is 50:50... some people become successful before standing out.. while some people stand out to become successful... and there's a huge grey are in between. Everyone finds their own path.

Awesome.FTW!

i wonder where is all the values, self attitude, behavior, view of perspective and principal of women and men.

reading all the replies here do hurt as,
if Moorish is a real lady, don't downgrade all the ladies out there who you think every single of them LOVES MONEY ONLY.

yes, we cant deny that we dont need money in our life. we need money so badly to survive.
but, don't say it as if poor guys dont have future and all ladies only dress up, stay pretty and fit for money.

hey, God gives us brains to choose the best for self , to develop our own character and own values.
if your life is all about money, i pity you cuz you dont have a life at all.
self attitude and behavior = money.
if you have terrible attitude and bad mindset, how you earn money? using ass ar??
and women should have good character, else how you find ur life partner and keep living?
guys out there, do you wish to have gf with a bad character?
if girls who only know about money and psychical beauty but not inner beauty, i swear those girls will be alone with their 27 cats by the age of 40.

if we were to compare love and money, love wins.
Love is universe. its not only about the relationship btw two persons. but it evolves everyone in a big circle.
If we ever have love for everyone, if only the quote " love is in the air" is true, we won't be sitting around typing down our own different views.

and "girls are money minded" will not be an issue at all.
and not all rich guys are unfaithful in their marriage.
why most rich guys have mistresses and find prostitutes? this is all because of their character and mindset!! they think tht such act is correct!

totally disagree with,
girls are tempted of money
and guys are tempted of pretty girls.

yes, when we find our other half, the 1st thing we look at is the other half's psychical.
but after that, MOST OF US will continuous look into the other half's inner beauty.

ps, who wants a rich guy but treat gf very bad? who wants a hot gf but sleeps around with other guys? i have contacts. pm me.

^ I'm amazed at the way you've got it all wrong

i want hot gf but sleep around.
gimme the number.
i'll dump her after im bored of her anyway.


btw, rich guys who find mistress n prostitutes are in accordance to the mentality of majority here in this thread.

This post has been edited by arsenwagon: Apr 29 2009, 10:45 PM

Well, then I guess it depends on the circumstance. But I have to agree that some are truly undeserving.

This post has been edited by GuitarWanker: Apr 30 2009, 12:04 AM

In actual divorce cases, the wife do get half of the husband's assets and custody of their children. More so when the husband openly commits adultery

Thats what Moorish did. She used her brain and dumped the man with poor character and values because he doesn't give a shit to improve his financial rut. So quit beaching around.

And if that is so, don't you think it is right to dump this undeserving bloke and go for one that truly deserves her? Since this man has all the qualities in terms of capability, financial standing, patience, and loving, much unlike the lorry driver. Love is only skin deep if either one doesn't take the initiative and commitment to improve themselves and take care of their loved ones. I believe the lorry driver was taking Moorish for granted and remained in competent throughout his sorry life. He's still a lorry driver even now!

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Added on April 30, 2009, 10:27 amIt is a natural instinct for a woman to choose her man depending on how well he can support and take care of the family. This happens in the animal kingdom too, and applies well to humans.

A woman who has no confidence with the ability of the man to take care of her and her children should not be with this man. Its also an inherent maternal instinct among women. The struggle to survive and provide for the young. So it is completely normal for woman to choose her man as selectively as possible, going for the man with the highest possible chance of successfully raising her children up.

This post has been edited by happy4ever: Apr 30 2009, 10:27 AM

MOST OF US will have no other choice. Not all guys are prince charming's... Not all girls are supermodels.

Therefore, EVERYONE wants to settle for the MOST ATTRACTIVE person that they are comfortable (read: culturally/emotionally compatible) with... who is willing to go out with them.

True, GIRLS ARE NOT TEMPTED BY MONEY... it's just that the guys with money are more likely to be successful: Girls are drawn to success/social_dominance just like guys are drawn to physical beauty. GIRLS ALWAYS SEEM TO WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT (ie. empathize) THE SUCCESSFUL GUYS.

True, GUYS DONT ONLY JUDGE GIRLS BY LOOKS... it's just that the girls with hot fertile bodies are more likely to be thriving in life: Guys are drawn to beauty/fertility just like girls are drawn to success/social_dominance. GUYS ALWAYS SEEM TO WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT (ie. empathize) THE PRETTY GIRLS.

The first step in building a relationship is EMPATHY - sharing feelings so to speak.
If you are attractive, more people will want to share their feelings with you. This works both ways for men and women.

Ask yourself:
If you're a single woman: Would you choose
A) a successful guy, thriving in life with a good career, stable income, nice house and car - and the personality to boot (ie. charm, charisma and fidelity).
B) a loser. Good for nothing guy who changes jobs every few months. Lives in a one bedroom apartment and rides a motorcycle. Sure, he has a nice personality (charm/charisma/fidelity)... but seriously.

If you're a man: Would you choose
A) A beautiful young woman in her early 20s. Nice personality, culturally compatible.
B) An unattractive woman in her mid 30s. Nice personality, culturally compatible.


People always like to believe what makes them happy:
#1) WOMEN who claim that "rich/successful/dominant" men are unfaithful.
#2) MEN who claim that "beautiful/hot/fertile" women are unfaithful.

People who claim this are usually average jane's/joe's who have settled for less than their ideal (because their ideal partner was unavailable to them - they werent attractive enough and had lost in the game of love). The tell themselves #1/#2 to feel good about themselves.

For single people who claim that: If that is your logic then please go ask the most unattractive person that you know out for a date...you know, the helpless loser guy who never dated in his 30s.. or the unattractive, pot-hole'd faced girl in her late 20's who has never had a guy ask her out. Im sure after spending some time with him/her you will start noticing how "nice" his/her personality is...and fall in love... after all, love is blind right???


In the same way you cannot say that a rich person is corrupt, you cannot say that a successful/attractive person is unfaithful. The poor hapless peasant never had the OPPORTUNITY to be corrupt... and the ugly/unattractive person never had the OPPORTUNITY to fvck around. Only some powerful people are corrupt. Only some successful/attractive people are unfaithful.

Assuming compatibility (religious/cultural/language) is the same between two potential partners - one attractive, one unattractive. Given the chance, would you rather be with an attractive person or an unattractive person?

Personally, I want to build a meaningful relationship with the most (culturally compatible) attractive person with who's willing to go out with me...and im sure most people will do the same. It's basic human nature.

This post has been edited by ezralimm: Apr 30 2009, 01:36 PM

well is true...

Even after I wrote my topic, you still haven't learnt anything have you?

Uh Ezra, you have learned to write using large bolded fonts. Does it help you make your point?

Because my eye pain.

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Added on April 30, 2009, 2:39 pm*GAG*!!!!

I knew it! You're some kind of tranny aren't you?

*VOMITS*

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Apr 30 2009, 02:39 PM