lol everybody frickin knows about soulmates. you say you know all about them by studying them, which is really REALLY funny because you obviously didn't bother looking for your soulmate and settled for less ... so how would you know what a soulmate really is?

a soulmate is half of a twin soul. When they meet, they share a deep, intimate connection where they are sexually, mentally, physically, emotionally compatible. There's no explaining how you know you've met him/her, it's just knowledge. It's a personal knowledge that you keep to yourself, which is what I mean by "people who have met their soulmates don't talk about them".

I googled the definition so I wouldn't tell you the wrong thing. I don't like giving my own definition when it could be partially wrong.

ANYWAY, we all know you settled for less, so you are cynical of the rest who actually have dreams that reach the skies and you don't believe that anybody who dreams like that is mature. You believe you are the only mature person in this thread, and that's why you're coming under fire. You don't have to be a spiritual person to believe in soulmates, you just have to be someone who believes that true love and soulmates are one and the same.

You are so entrenched in what you have now that is working for you, that you believe all else is immature and misguided. Is it really any wonder that there are people out there happier than you are because they believe in more than just what you settled for?

lol you're one to talk. I know a little bit about you, and how you use your emotions to argue/debate/whatever you want to call it. You like to make yourself sound right, even when you're wrong, by redefining words or changing what you said before. I don't think you're that much older than I am either, but I know people who are a lot more mature than you are younger than even myself.

How is it possible for you to not know very much yet know that you know more than I do? Are you secretly blonde? You can let your emotions carry you away in this discussion, like you seem to like to do, I'll just sit back and watch. Your telling of your story about your previous "trauma" with an ex boyfriend is supposed to make us feel pity for you? Or at least make ME feel pity for you? I know a little bit about that too. Everybody go "KESSIIANNNN!!!"

You tell people not to dream, but you dream yourself

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Oct 11 2009, 11:52 PM

never once did I say I was right.

lol half the time I just read you saying/asking if people look down on full time mothers. Why? Ego boost when they say no they don't? A lot of people do NOT look down on full-time mothers .... it's just full-time mothers like you who bum off their husbands and think that they're entitled to it that irks all of us.

well, like you said, why bring it up here? The entire purpose of this thread is to argue about moorish's (and yours and other girls who think like you two) idea that money comes first above all else. That's a theoretical/abstract idea that we're arguing, aren't we? That's why I put forward what I believe and my theories/opinions about the topic.

I don't need to prove that I'm right. If people accept that I'm right, then I'm right. If not, then I'm wrong.
Why do you need others to prove you wrong? Shouldn't you be doing that yourself?

Real examples sure, but all of your own interpretations and maybe a little bit of a twisted mindset. Remember that movie, "He's Just Not That Into You"? Maybe all those examples you gave us are the minority. We're the majority.

LOL you like to try to make me wrong and say that I'm high and mighty right all the time ... but look at you? You're the one acting like you're right all the time AHHAHAHAHA. Seriously woman, look at yourself. I'm not wrong all the time, nor am I right all the time ... but you seem to think you're right all the time and trying to pin that on me. Don't do that, pinning your labels on a younger person like me.

yeah because it's not what you want to hear, so you disregard it.

I didn't admit I'm wrong. I said I could be wrong. Look at you, jumping so quickly on someone who CAN admit that they may be wrong. Unlike you, whose word is law above all else and is always right, right?

I'm not proving anything to anybody. I don't think your way of thinking is right, so I say you should think this way. I think the main problem here is that both of you are very narrow-minded and refuse to consider thinking outside your own little box. What you accept as good enough for you is none of my business, but by limiting yourself, you fail to see the bigger picture and maybe even a greater happiness than the two of you have accepted. *shrug* I used to be very narrow-minded like the both of you, refusing to see what other people tell me I should see ... but I've realized that by doing that, I limit myself.

There are so many things out there that I could dream about and maybe even make a reality. I'm beyond happy right now, because I allowed myself to enjoy what I didn't allow myself to enjoy before. I'm a happier person because of it, and I don't need material goods to be happy because of this realization.

Examples of what? Marriages that lasted regardless of money? Dude a lot of my family started and married poor. They're still marred. *shrug*

I already have a man, and he's an average guy. *shrug*

I'm not having kids LOL I don't think my sole purpose in life is to have children, unlike some people.