So are you saying MOST prostitutes are working as prostitutes so that their bro and sis can get proper education? I'm talking about the majority here not your minority.

Which part of the sentence below that you don't understand?
"Also most prostitutes become prostitutes, and this was in an article in the Star section2 a few years back, not because they were forced to, but because it's better money, and that comes from the horse's mouth."

Please don't try to twist my sentence again and again. Nobody said their dumb and don't try to intepret in that way.

This post has been edited by Drian: Oct 9 2009, 04:00 PM

Then she'll start complaining in girls club on how shallow guys are and how they are jerks.

Yes I find that you cannot comprehend statements and debate properly. You resort to calling ppl arrogant when their views doesn't match yours and you like to twist people's statements. Thank you for you criticism.

So don't complain ya if your husband has a standard on you as well. It's your right to impose standards on your husband so your husband can also impose standards on you. You cannot complain. You must look pretty even though you're in your 40s just like Gong Li. Better put more SK2 now.

See when I ask you whether most of the prostitutes are doing this to send their brother and sister to school you keep quiet and refuse to answer the question. Instead you sudddenly became emo , resort to calling ppl arrogant and say that I disrespect for the unfortunate. It's as though you're resorting to name calling to cover up your inability to answer a simple question.



When can you get into the very thick skull of yours that I'm not talking about rich or poor. I'm saying that if you place a standard on a guy, the guy can also place a standard on you regardless of whether he's poor or rich.

Please la nowadays, women who work share the household chores with the husband. Some hire maid so that they can cope with the housework. And if you think delivering babies is hard for the next 9 months, wait till you have the pressure of having enough finances for your children for the next 30 years. Yes, mental pressure and work pressure for the next 30 years.
Ever wondered why women live longer than guys ?
Also it's a two way thing, women do not understand how hard is it to support the family, provide education to the kids and have enough money. They assume if you work hard = success but the funny thing is they can't be rich themselves. Why can so many career woman juggle between family and work but Moorish cannot? Who is more pathetic here?


As I said if you put a standard on guys, guys can also use the same standard against you.

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Added on October 9, 2009, 5:26 pmAre you speaking on her behalf that she doesn't oppose ?
So can I assume based on your statement tat she doesn't oppose that the husband has the right to demand that she still look pretty at the age of 45. After all he's still rich at the age of 45.


This post has been edited by Drian: Oct 9 2009, 05:33 PM

[quote=moorish,Oct 9 2009, 05:30 PM]
and my answer to you
deserve a facepalm
When can you get into the very thick skull of yours that I'm not talking about rich or poor. I'm saying that if you place a standard on a guy, the guy can also place a standard on you regardless of whether he's poor or rich.

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I think you;ve a thicker skull, plus blind, I've edi mention so many times guys can set whatever standard they like, if they think they're worth, which they've been doing all this while anyway but afraid to admit, otherwise all the fat ugly girls wont find it a problem to get married.

but if you;re refering to my husband changing his mind after we got married then its a problem, coz he convinced me he love me deeply just as I convinced him I dun treat him like an ATM machine.

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OK. If you have agreed then I have nothing to say. Just make sure you don't whine and complain later on about your husband later on ok.


This post has been edited by Drian: Oct 9 2009, 05:38 PM

Sorry I don't hold the same view . It's the same thing as both are expectations. I'm not disagreeeing with money getting you security.

I'm saying if she expects financial capability in a guy , a guy can also expect beauty in a girl and if SHE CANNOT provide it in the future, and IF the HUSBAND go out have an affair because she no longer provide the beauty then she CANNNOT complain about it.
Again nothing to do with rich or not, it's more like you EXPECT you have to GIVE. If you can't GIVE, you can't EXPECT. If you want to EXPECT and not GIVE, you can't complain. Period.

If you can leave a guy because they are not financially secure enough why can't a guy do the same to you if you're not pretty enough ? Who are you, that the rules must be skewed to your benefit?

If you think you can at the age of 45 please go ahead. Please please do. Lets see which rich guy will accept an old divorcee.

Because more and more women nowadays work. So your point is, you're the odd one out?



Oh then, I should rephrase that to "Women who think like Debbie" since not all girls think like you.




You're talking to yourself? You're right, you girls should question why other people can be rich without guys and you girls are not . Why is it that you girls are not rich and other people can be rich. Why are you girls working not hard enough and strive to be better at what you do? Can't do it ? Not capable enough? Girls have a brain and have the same two hands so why can't you do it.



The thing if girls are expecting rich, and girls provide beauty so it's fair. If you want to include biological body nature as well , then you girls haveto be rich as well. Simple as that.



So If your genetic can only grow that high , then it's JUST TOO BAD. Either improve your personality/character, be self motivated, aim higher attitude, be more humble or improve yourself so that you be a better person. Based on your own statement don't give genetic standard excuses. There are many ways girls can improve themselves.

If you're saying that attitude can be cultivated then why don't girls strive to be better at what they do and be rich themselves? I mean don't you think that whatever you say can be directed to your type of girls as well? There are so many successful women out there, so why can't girls do the same thing?


This post has been edited by Drian: Oct 9 2009, 08:25 PM

Aiya nvm la since both of them already decided that that's their path that they want to take, there's nothing we can do about it. You can argue until pigs can fly and they'll still believe they have the right to expect wealth from guys. Just let them be accountable for their own choices.