From the bolded part I was told that 5k can't afford a high maintenance gf and therefore this category of "high-maintenance gf" are gold digger. Please see my reply here:

I have already told you please correct me if I'm wrong. And why would you imply the word "paranoia" on me? Can you tell me the way you implied "paranoia" here is an unfavourable term or commentable term? For me, it's an unfavourable term.

Yes, I'm high maintenance.
What's your next question to me?

Ya, I know this is one of my problem. You're not the only one that commented me actually, I knew it long time when I was in college. After years of research on my symptoms only I found out that it's because I lack of acknowledgement and support from my family (parents) and therefore every small and tiny words which people said unintentionally, in a general way, I will take them too seriously and negatively.

I'm trying to get rid of it. I hope you won't mind, too. 

Hahahaha.... I already known you will ask me these 2 questions!!!


So here is my reply, repeated for the second time:

And I do include boy friend, too.

You are slapping yourself. Please don't simply make assumption which I have never meant it.
Oh ya, sure.

Becaue I replied:
Yes, I'm high maintenance.

Then you replied:
so u mean u spend more than few thousand ringgit for clothes and luxuries stuff every month paying by your boyfren ?

That's why I said you are making assumption.

High maintenance must be a gold digger suck out boy friend's or husband's money?

I'm high maintenance but I am NOT a gold digger; I will NOT go for a 5K monthly earning guy if he is not self-motivated.

Have I answered your question?

Ok. I get what you want to ask.

So someone tell me "Oh the college's tuition fee is very expensive". What's the level of expensive and cheap?
My point is that: high maintenance is something which is beyond the general expenses. For a normal OL, RM2k per month is considered high maintenance but for a Datin, RM10k per month.

I'm saying I'm high maintenance because I don't go for basic daily needs only. I spend money to groom up myself to look more presentable and tidy, I don't go for normal shopping malls but certain branded clothings for its reliable quality. However, all my expenses on these maintenance, I spend it on my own, according to my ability.
I didn't acuse you.

I was saying that from what I understand, you were claiming "a gal who doesn't go for 5k guy = high maintenance gal/gold digger.
Well, thanks for your explaination then.

yes, I think you;re the only male in here that can read english.

It was emphasize from the beginning when I say why woman are money minded, since prehistoric ages they look for man that can provide, todays equivalent would be money = security

and the mother instinct not kicked in part

It is never about prehistoric woman wants a giant airy cave to live in, expect to be carry around, demand to eat exotic T-rex meat, its all about meeting and creating a comfortable and workable, safe home to start a family.

Providing and security from a mothers point of view.

Woman inherit this instinct when they look for husband because they're preparing to be mothers, to have children. And in todays world sometimes the man just can provide all hence mothers needs to go out and look for jobs to compensate.

But man in CC expect mothers to work and compensate, failing to see their own failure to do so, plus they got part of their ego chewed and got emo. You should be ashame when you cant provide plus you want to twist this fact and accuse this thread its about enjoying life, about being lazy, you guys are young and never realize a breastfeeding fulltime mother do more and are stressed up more than all yuor years work add together.

Do you know how many mums go into depression? they kill their children!

In that case you've misinterpretted her. She's merely saying pick from among the financially capable, and who's to say that love cannot happen within these brackets?

(hope moorish would give me a pat for this one, i'm a fan.    )

Ahchai! i really dont think u understand what u just said

You asking the girl to slim down is the same as her asking u to get rich. how many facepalm, now?

thats a good one teongpeng,

7chai
that shows you're still shallow with a little tolerance, what if she cant slim down? or no plastic surgery can fix her?

seriously, it is still shallow

And thats why she is smarter than you. Here have one 

She never claim that. You made it up. Making up things is the main reason why people go into depression over things which arent really there.
Here we go again...

People who dont understand what they are saying and need others to repeat again and again is the main reason why this thread has reached 100 pages.     

I'm amazed, you really fully understand everything. I've tried to tell them this somewhere back there but the message got lost or deliberately ignored.

hey you;re still setting standard of your choice of wife right?
You;re ok to be shallow but I'm not ok to pick a rich hubby.
at least the reason I pick a rich hubby is so I can be a fulltime mother, what is your intention of denying a ugly fat woman for a wife?

and btw I dun think so I;m that rude, an indonesia construction worker wanna date me I tell him u balik indon. I'll just say sorry. thats all.

you dun choose a person by the look but yet you want your other half to be presentable, you should start a thread man wan beautiful wife and be proud of it.

Be bold and admit what you want in life like what I did.

Why do you want to help your fren slim down? whats the problem being fat?

it is still setting a standard just like I set a standard for my husband to be

I dun understand...maybe my mind is blur...care to elaborate more
you mean look has no apparent attraction to you at all? you said you expect a presentable wife, the question should be can you fall in love with a fat ugly woman?
Sincerely it has nothing to do with get a gf or get a bf?

You dont choose based on look but earlier you said u will try to change them What C0ck you talk? Are you changing side too? welcome aboard? want a Moorish tshirt?

This passage my friend. This passage implies that u believe there are no girls out there that can accept a non-rich guys. So i'm telling no, my friend, that is not the case. Different girls have different priorities setting different standards.

You seem to be taking what moorish said and imply that she meant is for all girls out there. She's not. She's just saying that its ok to choose a husband the way she did.

Those girls who put more importance in other areas need not apply. Guys like you can go for these girls. you dont have to play backside with other guy wan, understand?

Repeating the same thing is getting boring.
Wow. So rude. Now that would be more effective if it made any sense.

You already said you want your fat gf to slim down and here u are saying u dont care about looks. Is it really so hard to understand how u are contradicting yourself here, ahchai?