QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 9 2009, 03:44 PM)
And you my friend have a mind of a Face palm candidate. EDITED for effects.
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Girls are money minded, And be proud of it.
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Oct 9 2009, 03:57 PM
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Sigh. I said I'm done with this thread, and I really did try to stay away from it. The following facepalm is directed at myself.
QUOTE(Duke Red @ Oct 9 2009, 03:27 PM) Everyone likes to be pampered, who doesn't? Guys do as well. I just don't believe in demanding or expecting to be. ...but I'm going to reply in support of this because I think it's a point that everyone keeps missing.There are things that are perfectly alright if given freely - but is not alright if it is demanded. What Moorish has now - the life of a Stay-At-Home-Mom - is something her husband gave her freely. Which I can perfectly understand. If I made enough money to support my family, I would be more than glad to tell my wife to quit her job and take care of our kids full-time. But if she were to demand it of me - if she were to tell me I must work hard and earn more money so she can stop working and stay at home all day, otherwise I'm little more than a bum - I would be very very unhappy with her. Regardless of whether or not I can afford it. That's what the girls (and the battle lines are very much drawn between guys and girls on this thread) don't seem to understand. That which is given freely is cheapened if demanded or expected. Moorish is saying, "Look at the wonderful life I have! Girls, you too can have it! Here's what you must do to get it." She's wrong. You can't do anything to get it - not without becoming a gold-digging whore. You can only be so lucky as to have someone give it to you. Moorish was lucky. That's all she is. And no, I don't think she's a gold-digging whore at all - she just doesn't realize how lucky she is. |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:01 PM
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Oct 9 2009, 04:01 PM
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To TS,
What is your opinion about this? What if your husband tells you about this? How do you feel? “Guys loves polygamy, and be proud of it.” This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 9 2009, 04:05 PM |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:08 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 03:55 PM) of all the post before, this is the only post you choose to make your mind blur, greatQUOTE(n00b13 @ Oct 9 2009, 03:58 PM) There are things that are perfectly alright if given freely - but is not alright if it is demanded. nice postShe's wrong. You can't do anything to get it - not without becoming a gold-digging whore. You can only be so lucky as to have someone give it to you. Moorish was lucky. That's all she is. And no, I don't think she's a gold-digging whore at all - she just doesn't realize how lucky she is. more likely she is depending on luck entirely in her life QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Oct 9 2009, 04:01 PM) a surrogate This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Oct 9 2009, 04:09 PM |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:09 PM
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Oct 9 2009, 04:11 PM
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Oct 9 2009, 04:11 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Mar 18 2009, 06:23 PM) Fast forward to today, we no longer require mr. muscle to protect us, security took a new meaning, security = money. So girl will marry a guy when he is rich and this is why the quote ada wang ada amoi. Fast forward to today, we no longer require lazy girls to entertain us, money took a new meaning, money = more hot girls. So guy will marry the girls when they are super hot and this is why the quote “ada wang ada banyak ahmoi”. From the statistic, girls are more than guys. Meaning the probability to hit more than 1 girl is higher.As a well-educated guy, I wouldn’t agree. This post has been edited by POYOZER: Oct 9 2009, 04:12 PM |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:11 PM
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 03:55 PM) I dun understand...maybe my mind is blur...care to elaborate more the chances is there, but not that high compare to decent looking gal.you mean look has no apparent attraction to you at all? you said you expect a presentable wife, the question should be can you fall in love with a fat ugly woman? Sincerely it has nothing to do with get a gf or get a bf? i expect a presentable wife, but ugly can be presentable too right ? thats not only say that "only pretty gal are presentable" |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:15 PM
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QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 9 2009, 03:46 PM) Can can, did I say cannot ? I thought I always emphasized that it's her right to do so. guys have always imposed standard on girls, would you marry a fat ugly woman?But as always what I'm saying is you impose standards on guys, guys can also impose standards on you and girls cannot complain about it. That's all I'm saying. QUOTE(POYOZER @ Oct 9 2009, 03:52 PM) Rich so how much income is consider rich?Synonyms: These adjectives mean having an abundant supply of money, property, or possessions of value: a rich executive; an affluent banker; a speculator flush with cash; not merely rich but loaded; moneyed heirs; wealthy corporations. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/rich http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wealth QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Oct 9 2009, 03:53 PM) oh....., still i need to hear from her I tried creating one long ago but says duplicate account, so have to use this one.and i still don't know why she is taking over her hushband account, instead of creating her own QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 9 2009, 03:55 PM) So are you saying MOST prostitutes are working as prostitutes so that their bro and sis can get proper education? I'm talking about the majority here not your minority. I find that you're an arrogant man sitting high at your castle in the sky, I dun even know why I'm debating with you, so would skip your posting.Which part of the sentence below that you don't understand? "Also most prostitutes become prostitutes, and this was in an article in the Star section2 a few years back, not because they were forced to, but because it's better money, and that comes from the horse's mouth." |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:17 PM
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QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 9 2009, 04:09 PM) They are blind. Maybe. Guys are naturally loves to own more than one girl. The different is some people cannot control it and some people know how to control it. The one who cannot control it are not much different with Moorish's opinion. |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:24 PM
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QUOTE(POYOZER @ Oct 9 2009, 04:01 PM) To TS, if he tells me now then I would say is a cheat, if he tells me earlier he wouldnt be my husband today.What is your opinion about this? What if your husband tells you about this? How do you feel? “Guys loves polygamy, and be proud of it.” QUOTE(POYOZER @ Oct 9 2009, 04:11 PM) Fast forward to today, we no longer require lazy girls to entertain us, money took a new meaning, money = more hot girls. So guy will marry the girls when they are super hot and this is why the quote “ada wang ada banyak ahmoi”. From the statistic, girls are more than guys. Meaning the probability to hit more than 1 girl is higher. I dun think so I'll whine with a hurt egos, i know plenty of man who do it in real life, I dun slam them. But the question back to you is do you have what it takes?As a well-educated guy, I wouldn’t agree. This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 04:26 PM |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:24 PM
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hmm nvm
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 03:49 PM) thats why ask you read properly, you seriously think they;re dumb? you're arrogant. i actually miss this post. +1 right there!sick mom...bro and sis so young, no money, if she work in KFC she can only fend for herselfs and leave the family to die. This is exactly what whitecollar girls do. Thats why I've great respect for these girls and actually respect them more than those career woman you talk about. They do this so family can survive, so bro and sis get proper education so no need to end up in slums. open your eyes and dun snub them. People who respect others and manage to see thru the difficulties and take the trouble to understand other ppl have my utmost respect. You are right. Prostitutes are in a way better than so-called career women in that atleast they arent pansyfooting that they value money. They are FOR REAL. |
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QUOTE(moorish @ Oct 9 2009, 04:15 PM) guys have always imposed standard on girls, would you marry a fat ugly woman? so how much income is consider rich? I tried creating one long ago but says duplicate account, so have to use this one. I find that you're an arrogant man sitting high at your castle in the sky, I dun even know why I'm debating with you, so would skip your posting. QUOTE I find that you're an arrogant man sitting high at your castle in the sky, I dun even know why I'm debating with you, so would skip your posting. Yes I find that you cannot comprehend statements and debate properly. You resort to calling ppl arrogant when their views doesn't match yours and you like to twist people's statements. Thank you for you criticism. So don't complain ya if your husband has a standard on you as well. It's your right to impose standards on your husband so your husband can also impose standards on you. You cannot complain. You must look pretty even though you're in your 40s just like Gong Li. Better put more SK2 now. |
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Oct 9 2009, 04:31 PM
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QUOTE(Drian @ Oct 9 2009, 04:26 PM) Yes I find that you cannot comprehend statements and debate properly. You resort to calling ppl arrogant when their views doesn't match yours and you like to twist people's statements. Thank you for you criticism. This post has been edited by moorish: Oct 9 2009, 04:33 PMsorry if I've got emo, just that I really cant debate with you, your view and disrespect for the unfortunate and blame their misfortune onto themselfs are just too emo for me. So don't complain ya if your husband has a standard on you as well. It's your right to impose standards on your husband so your husband can also impose standards on you. You cannot complain. You must look pretty even though you're in your 40s just like Gong Li. Better put more SK2 now. As mention, character flaw in future is in another phase: same like if I marry an average guy he too has equal chances of having another girl out there in future. you cannot use rich are not loyal poors are saints into this debate |
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Read properly la..
============================================= Different ppl have different priorities in doing selection, its their own choice. the least u can do is to NOT kill other ppl's dream? How about the normal hardworking guy want to marry their love ones also? Ask them to play backside with other guy? Since the girl dump them coz found another more security $$$$ guy? (girls tat get influenced by TS) She cant simply kill their dream also by encourage other girls - thinking only more $$$$ guy are capable to provide more security and loves. Those girls going for average hardworking guy are immature n will regret. ============================================= Did i mentioned all girls? Don't simply assume if u r not sure wat i'm saying. Who is not paying attention now? Imply wat again? all girls prioritise $$$$$? ya rite. QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 03:29 PM) You did imply that when u asked whats going to happen to all those poor blokes who fail to meet TS's standards. And my reply was awefully simple, look for the ones who dont prioritise money. I'm amazed by ppl who cant keep a focused perspective during a discussion. This post has been edited by viper88: Oct 9 2009, 04:38 PMBut u clearly wanted them to jatuh their standard to make the 'lower level' fellas happy, otherwise you claim she is wrong. now u say its her right to not jatuh her standard. Are you changing sides now? welcome aboard...here have a Moorish tshirt. I only pointed out TS mindset is not right saying other girls are immature or will regret in life if they choose a normal average hardworking guy as hubby. and i feel its a bad to influence for other girls to choose husband priority based on $$$. I'm not forcing her to chg her std also coz "Leapord wont chg its spot" ma. I doubt she is trying to convert anyone. She's just defending herself from the attacks she undeservedly receive thru her choice of husband. And she's saying its ok to make the choice she did, coz she is happy now. What she is saying to the other girls is not to get discouraged by ppl who tell them otherwise. Doubt she try to convert? What she wrote here is for others to read and at the same time she call other girls immature and will regret if didn't follow her footstep to set a higher std.. Do u read wat she wrote? "to those girl who insist love is more important, they're just immature and the mother instinct not kick in yet, after few years of marriage they'll regret of their choice. So to girls who choose on love.... wait till you grow up, its always wiser like our ancestor has put the genetic on our blood, go for security! modern girls replaces security with money bcoz this world are fueled by money. And why I was saying if the girl who chooses love if she was given a choice with a rich guy who loves her is immature: You're not thinking of your future, worse you allow your children to suffer just bcoz of your impulses on love. Love grows thinner in most cases. Security (MONEY) takes up 60% of a womans decision when comes to choosing husband. And its perfectly normal. If pak toh, you choose the one you love and enjoy the time When talking about marriage you choose the secure one." Its the dream. She's made hers a reality. What about you? I have my own life goals, some i've already achieved it and continuously working to achieve higher and better goals in my life. I don't have to depend on other people $$$$ to feel more secure in my life to achieve my dream. |
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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Oct 9 2009, 03:34 PM) You dont choose based on look but earlier you said u will try to change them What C0ck you talk? Are you changing side too? welcome aboard? want a Moorish tshirt? aiks, i miss this. So if i am telling u that i choose base on feeling instead of look, are u going to suck my c0ck ? no, keep that T-shirt to wipe ur cum. |
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QUOTE(viper88 @ Oct 9 2009, 04:36 PM) How about the normal hardworking guy want to marry their love ones also? This passage my friend. This passage implies that u believe there are no girls out there that can accept a non-rich guys. So i'm telling no, my friend, that is not the case. Different girls have different priorities setting different standards. Ask them to play backside with other guy? Since the girl dump them coz found another more security $$$$ guy? You seem to be taking what moorish said and imply that she meant is for all girls out there. She's not. She's just saying that its ok to choose a husband the way she did. Those girls who put more importance in other areas need not apply. Guys like you can go for these girls. you dont have to play backside with other guy wan, understand? Repeating the same thing is getting boring. QUOTE(7chai @ Oct 9 2009, 04:41 PM) aiks, i miss this. Wow. So rude. Now that would be more effective if it made any sense. So if i am telling u that i choose base on feeling instead of look, are u going to suck my c0ck ? no, keep that T-shirt to wipe ur cum. You already said you want your fat gf to slim down and here u are saying u dont care about looks. Is it really so hard to understand how u are contradicting yourself here, ahchai? This post has been edited by teongpeng: Oct 9 2009, 04:48 PM |
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