and i still don't know why she is taking over her hushband account, instead of creating her own

a surrogate

Buddha says one of the duty for a good husband in regards the wife is to shower her with adornments.

Now who wants to argue with Buddha?

Wait...so ure saying ure a single mom? Coz that thug bf made u pregnant and then farked off? If yours is this situation then all i can say is it is neve ez being a single parent. BUT, if u are saying u now married to a rich man just coz of ur experienced above, then  i would say ur experience is love and life is really warped. A through and through wholesome, sane man would think that the situation would be totally farked up. I just hope u bring up ur kids to view life in a more optimistic way as opposed to ur own warped views on life.

My father was an honest to good, hard working man. He didnt earn much being a government servant but he took it his reponsibility to raise 5 kids to adulthood and my mom. My father did not have money to offer us as there was not much but he offered in other ways. He offered us a good education and he went all the way to assure that. He offered his tender and supportive love to us and my mom. HE stuck with us even went the going got tuff. My mom appreciated him and loved him as do we his children which was evident with our shedding of tears on his passing. He sacrificed his enjoyment and trips to other countries so that his family got the best in life and only enjoyed much later in his later years after his retirement at 60 years old. Even after that he worked in the church to get money to pay for my college education. Who or wat man is so dedicated to his family even more so with just euff money dat we come to love him and respect him of what he stands for which is integrity. My father was a great man. Me and my siblings are all successful professionals in our respective fields now and we owe every bit of that to him. Yes money may be a factor, but attitude, character and strong determination and responsibility to the family eventually overcome all odds. I kno coz i've experienced dat through his love. SO don say dat money matters in making a relationship work. If u feel that way then ur feelings are superficial and no matter how much money u have, u will feel empty. Even that, wealth is neve forever and one who is rich may fall into bankruptcy as with the case of my brother in law. My eldest sis married rich, had 2 kids and then her husband got bankrupt. Even so, she tries to keep the family together as all us siblings try to help out where we can. SO tell me does marrying a rich man guarantee happiness. I neve liked my brother in law because he seems like the type who would fool around. 2 polar opposites: My father and my brother in law. You judge for yourself.

Many times I would pray to God to take my dad away, I would say it is for his own good but I think I do it because I cant take the burden anymore. one fine morning having breakfast with my mom, she ask me to check on dad as he was coughing, she told me to take him to see doc few days ago but I just dili dali, so I got up and went to dads room and I saw he was yellow, I went near him and feel his hands, it was really could, tears gather at my eyes I gave a last kiss on his forehead, my lips was like kissing on a cold tile.

After 90+ pages, one would think that she would be open to POSIIBILITY that her paradigm are flawed. 

What happen instead was she "editted" her first post.. Ignore relevant points by others. She focuses on some negative feedbacks and take it personally.
I have to admit, some of the responses here are abit immature and uncalled for.. but she need to know that people are generally here to "help". 
You could only help people so much.  Changing core beliefs is really hard.  One must be courageous and willing.  If one is not willing, no amount of convincing would be enough. 

not untill you experiences it yourself mate, it's really tough especially when they are still young

plus that's how evil mind works for everyone, they'll attack when we are at a vulnerable state, don't tell me you are all saints to yourself in whatever you do

the thing is even if she is or not what you perceive to be, i'm here to learn =P

erm viper, to your understanding, impression itself is important in expressing one views to others

they way you used "No wonder la" and other broken english seems to be one of the reason people don't take you seriously in expressing your thought, it somehow show unnecessary emotion by being judgemental over a person, hence people will more likely try to ignore it

there are more poster in here than moorish herself in here lulz

capishe ?

cause maybe the problem is not you but the other way around

comprehension problem

what is face problem anyway ? lulz

Come on la..... Even Money-minded girls are much better than guys....

Atleast they are doing for a better living....

Comparing to guys (including me).... We choose our life partner based on look...

Tat's self enjoyment... And won't do us any good..   

We're more pathetic than money-minded girls...