AGREE!! money is important!!

as guy we should be the one able to earn enough to support a family in the future...

haha

from a man point of view yes...

But, like what few forumers here said, money is secondary. So, money is after love and not as a primary. Good couple will work together to find money.

This post has been edited by POYOZER: Mar 18 2009, 11:52 PM

marriage u will pick A ?
how long the parent can live to feed their child ?

hurm.....

hey i like this one, hv this thoughts too!

Family belongs to each of two souls in the couple...it is selfish to see one sleeping partner in the business

i'm not like most man, i'm a gentleman :bow:

This post has been edited by JapanKid89: Mar 19 2009, 12:13 AM

Girls who only go after money totally miss the point. They'll have to give up their independence, interests, and personality, just to fit the rich husband's ego. Tell me, which rich husband can stand their wives being independent and capable to protect themselves?

I pity these girls who don't mind a lifetime of misery just being some other lusty men's sex toy.

Most posters in this (currently) 7-page thread seems to think:
rich men = 100% are evil, unfaithful, *insert negative comment*
poor/middle-class = must be good, faithful, sure to become rich, sure to be successful in career in the future

Talk about being simplistic. Talk about stereotyping. Somehow the words "sour grapes" spring to mind.

there's always a successful woman behind a successful man :motivation

i agree with u whole-heartedly. still..personality comes first

in fact, ppl survive becoz of money.......

money ish da real life deviL

No.. Greed is. Greed is what makes ppl do evil things. Money is just the catch..the necessity in life.

money is the root of all evil..

anyway, i think TS is just trying to say that even when a girl choose a rich guy instead of a poor guy, it doesnt mean that the girl is bad/materialistic or that girl should be shameful of her choice.. honestly, love is so fragile.. hmm.. so it's noth wrong if the girl choose based on her perception of security..

as i grow older, my perspective in love has changed.. i mean, of coz i still want to find the one i could love till i die, but i think not many in this world are fortunate enough to find The One.. if couldnt find then we might just settle for smth else or for smth lesser.. like financial security?

i can be independent and earn my own money but i would only consider his proposal if he can support me financially..

This post has been edited by lollypop77: Mar 19 2009, 04:36 AM

character, personality and background of a person u should look for...the rest is just secondary traits expanded from the primary...

if decision is made solely on bread n butter...u r going to miss alot of marriage life...

Oh screw it, it's all about money anyway

*hopping away while singing ella ella eh eh eh*

You are right... most forumer are stereotyping that rich men are bad guy...

but I believe TS is referring to a situation where A & B guy are having a slightly different character but huge different in $$$ status..

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS. And there are some husbands that are able to stand these type of wives. Trust ME. I have seen some of them. An if the guy is too soft, the husbands losses but he still loves his wife and lest his wife control his money. And some woves is like 100% minded but the good part is that hey can anage money propely. From wht i know so far, wives who wants money become rich sooner or later cause their usbands like to spend tehir money all around and doesnt know how to mange their own money. For example, BEJAYA BOSS, he is a nice guy but likes to spend his money but his wife is the one that likes to save money for him. Some wifes are good and bad. IT DEPENDS.

Rich men=Not all 100% are like these, some guys are just worried that heir gf or whoever may just cheat them. So thats why they take carefull steps. Sometimes these happen because of wht they have experience.

Xhiro, i think you can't get what TS is trying to say

THat's another story. If already marriage, then of course will be with him even if he got fired or whatsoever. We're talking who will you go for BEFORE marriage.

Understand?

NO!

Yes, you're right.

Why would ppl think this way? I have many admirers, some are rich some are poor some are hardworking some are 'tidak apa' kind of character. I will of course choose the one that financial stable, these guys are rich not because they cling on their parents, but they work hard and be ambitious in their career, they are promising and matured in life.

I'm not a materialistic gal, i don't buy perfumes, branded, cosmetics; I buy new clothes (RM25/clothe at Time Square) once or twice a month and everytime i purchase only below RM100. But I will go for rich guy or financial stable one. This is not because I want money from him, we gals just want to see guys who work hard and be ambitious in his career, not all the time think about love & sex or "dream" to become a rich man. Gal won't go for a guy who can't even earn enough for themselves, if that's the case, a gal can also feed herself on her own. You all get what i mean?? If finally the guy will leave the gal, gal will get hurt; but what if you follow a poor man till one day he gets rich and he leaves you? You get what I mean?

Again, I emphasize here: Gal just want a life with no cares, gals are willing to work even after marriage to lighten husband's burden, but a gal will definitely choose the financial stable ones, just to have no care about when their husband has no money to feed himself and wants the wife to think of his daily life.