To Ah Man and Janice



Rest in Peace~Be happy together in heaven~


Sos


I'm not close to the both of you..but we hung out in college..we've lost contact..until i heard the news few days ago...i couldn't believe it at 1st,,, until i called chee and she cried like mad..it suddenly hit on me..that both of you are gone..i was emo..saddened..and it felt so weird..like i cant breath..and wanted to cry.but could not...yes even tho..we dont really hang out anymore since you an janice got together..and stuff..and since ah man not with jye sui..but..

Here, I want to share a tragic and sad story.. this is a TRUE STORY, REAL PLS NO JOKES HERE!


A - driver , ah man's best friend
B - the guy sitting in fron of the passenger seat
C- ah man's best friend
D- ah man's ex
Janice - the deceased
Ah Man - the deceased both of them are a couple

A was driving back to Kampar...with B sitting beside him, Man and Janice seated behind..he was driving fast...and when he turned..the whole car lost control..it hit a lorry parked at the side of the road..
Janice was the one who got hit 1st..she got severed the most and was in most pain...the glasses broke....and she swallowed way too many glasses that broke from the window and wind screen..she was in pain..she was crying... her bf , ah man, was the 2nd one who got hit..he hit his head..he was unconscious..he was bleeding..the driver A and B was not hurt..just a lil bruised..the driver at that point..has gone " insane" and severely traumatised..he didnt even recognise his parents...B was too in shocked...called D who hapens to be in Genting with my friend...and he was like in a state of shock and didnt know how to react just said " ..accident..happened...accident.." (in monotone..) then D was like " wha taccident? what are you talking bout?" then he hung up...

then he called again " accident ..they are in hospital" Dwas kinda annoyed...bcos he tot was joking..and then they tot the accident was a minor wan..bcos he didn really say how serious it was..." yeah lah accident lar..so what? can die meh?" ..then B was like " if you want..you can come " then hung up.. then he called again.." can you help me call C? tel him that accident happened"
D was like "okok" then called C..then C said " accident? so what guan ngo meh si oh??" still unaware of the seriousness of the accident..because B was just..tlaking in monotone..and he too i dont know wha the was feeling but..he's the one who informed the accident

and then my friends got back from genting arrived in kampar...and they were tired so they sleep...then D called in the early morning ..called my friend..who went to genting together..we're close friends..and screamed " AH MAN SEI JOR ARRR!!"( ah man is dead!) then my friend was like " *** WTF? NOT FUNNY OK?" she was already trembling..and then they both were silent..and still cant believe...but a il worried..they hung up...my friend went to bed..couldn sleep...was shaking..was worried...then she called D " how's everthing" then D said " he's dead...*cry* he's dead!!!..janice also i think is dead!!" then both of them borrowed a car from a friend..quickly drive back from kampar to ipoh...and both ah man and janice is already dead..janice is from kl..so..her body was like.neglected..nobody was around her body..it made my friend broken hearted..to see nobody cared...everyone was like at ah man's body.... C was there too..crying..stunt..and speechless..
Ah man's parents were already numb... A was at home..still shocked..traumatised..he was the last to know that Ah man and Janice died..nobody wanted him to know.

this comes the most depressing part,

janice was already dead during the journey of sending them back from kampar hospital to ipoh hospital..cos f***en kampar hospital cant do big operation...she was already gone..she was bleeding too much..her internal was already severed by the glass he swallowed...

ah man who was tht time..in a coma state...he heart was beating like really fast...but he can still hear us talking...ah man's parents was there just keep calling his name..so to keep him "awake" and then ah man parents said " ah man, janice is gone..she's dead.." then ah man's heart..slowly...gradually..started to stop beating..and then he went too...

i think he didn't want to live..after knowing his gf was dead too..so they both went just like that.


well..if you ask me why i made this thread..i just want people to know..speeding..is lethal..and ..if you suffer the consequences yourself it's ok..but dont make others suffer..and in this case...A caused the death of his own best friend..i dont think he will ever recover from this..he will live his life in guilt and pain forever..and have people blame him for murdering his best friends. until now, he's still very much traumatised..

i in my part, never ever in a chance would have thought something like htis would happen to people i know...and i think everyone htinks like that..they are like " ahhh another accident..." this wont happen to me..no worries..but you never know..

this is also a condolence thread and a dedication thread to ah man and janice. Rest in peace~ may a better life await you in your next life.


ps: sorry bout the really crappy english..

This post has been edited by MeruChan: Mar 16 2009, 08:24 PM

RIP Janice & Ah Man

I dunno u guise but i do hope u guise will rest in peace

what car was A driving?

i think A acting tramautize because he is feeling guilty lol

PICTURE OF A AKA DRIVER PLZ..

RIP TO JANICE AND AH MAN

haish just like that time at sunway ... student came back from clubbing... driving fast+drunk flew to opposite side of road and hit a lorry..

when i pass by got body at behind stuck in the waja... but after i finish yam cha come back see bomba already took out the body ..

moral of story dont drive fast.. especially if you are drunk.. and unfamiliar iwth the road...

This post has been edited by Flizzardo: Mar 16 2009, 05:01 PM

i dunno both of them. but hope both of them rest in peace~~

Who ask to drive fast. duh!

deepest condolences...

Sad2

yeah i know..he shouuldn't have speed..it was his fault..and now he's paying for it..but the driver..is also my friend..and i know him..but at one part...he didn't want this to happened..i think among all people..he's hte one that suffered the most..and will suffer all his life

The Undertaker says R.I.P

ehhhhh


This post has been edited by Azzat.x: Mar 16 2009, 05:01 PM

oo..tats why my teacher today was nagging my class bout teen driving.

RIP to meru fwenz.. dont speed when driving

got wear seatbelt or not?

Jangan bawak kereta laju-laju.kthxbai

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=...2456&sec=nation

Do they have accounts here? The girl is familiar, I think I know her....

ok..... btw condolence

RIP to Ah Man and Janice. god bless

hancur beb kete tu...

reminds me of 4 malaysian students died in car accident in queensland some years ago.

when ur young u feel invincible

untill something like this happen

RIP..

..her internal was already severed by the glass he swallowed... ???? wtf

well speed kills

sorry to hear that... may both victims RIP.

adoi, TS already stated that his english crappy liao so just let him make his mistakes in this thread ok?

Its an Honda City, well youngsters nowadays seems to think that they are very pro at driving, showing off on the road, cutting in and out of the lane, and honking and forcing slower car off the roads, and now what happened?

no need to be picky.. we all know what TS meant

RIP... please drive safely everyone, you're responsible not only for life, but your passenger's and everyone else's on the road.

i used to travel using that road last time during my colleage time at kampar. that trunk road is quite dangerous ... condolence

RIP to Ah Man and Janice. very sad story


isnt that Honda City? he think it is racing car?

Basically car accident lah?
Meruchan has a way of making things longer than it should.

what generation city is that?

I did read the news. And i'm very sorry for Meru lost. May ur friend will rest in peace in some other unknown places.

aiyo...plenty of people die in car accident everyday la..wat makes this so special?

basically its their own fault, speed..drink..etc. and wif frens in the car, hot to concentrate,imagine the driver driving and a girl blowing the driver. hot to concentrate on the road, i know i wont.

My deepest condolences

Oh common grammar nazis , even that you want to pick point her mistake. Thread starter is clearing sharing her experince and yet there are still some people would like to criticize her command of English !

Its the sadest thing to go. It would be very hard for A to get over with it and come back to his senses. The guilt would be still within himself

Anyway , if we get back to the topic - Its not about speeding. You can speed , however youngsters these days just speed and drive recklessly without thinking about their surrounding. Speed when its safe.

D- ah man's ex

D is guy or girl? in the story it seem D is a guy. Ah man is a guy. Yes no need to be picky. it has crappy clarified english is crappy. But HE and SHE is very basic.

See, this what happen when you think you can't die, young, invicible. Drive fast again. Today ah man and janice were sacrificed to deliver this message. Speed kills.

Of cos the driver and his co in front saved. Cos they have airbags.

RIP to the dead.

look at the impact, it hit sideways hence the front passenger and driver survived

ipoh aint that big, man is also a schoolmate of mine, we were in the same class as well once

Few facts to learn from this:

1) Speeding doesn't kill. Driving recklessly does.

2) When accident occurs, better close your mouth

From the pic, it seems the lorry parked at the left lane, and the car spun 360Deg and had its right hind hit the lorry, injuring the two hind passengers?

ZZzzzz

story too long

it happened in the morning 2 am ... the fellas just finished clubbing (i think) ... it was raining ... if you're the driver, what will u do? ... speed? ...

there was a lorry involved too ... parked illegally ...

well ... RIP

Speeding doesn't kill. It's the sudden stopping that kills.

RIP

How sure are you that it was parked illegally and not emergencily?

Newton's 3rd law killed them. Newton's fault!!!

RIP

RIP...

btw, farking driver fault...

swt...in b4 someone blame Honda for making lousy car.

why if there's a lorry, it's lorry's fault?

it's the car owner's fault too. not fitting airbags for backseat passenger.

was a fuggin bend ... driver should have slowed down

Was the driver driving under the influence of alcohol?

Was he charged?

if slow down malu la

look like nood... wan look yeng mah

I wanna bash the driver.

Anyway, speeding DOES kill. Don't think becuz you're pro car driver doesn't means everyone else on the road is. Nobody can avoid an accident if it's another driver's fault, and in the event of a crash. Your chances of surviving when you're driving at 90km/h is most likely higher than when you're speeding at 140km/h.

Today youngster...really shouldn't be given a driving license in the first place. I hope the driver will have his license gantung for rest of his freaking life.

threads like this reminds me to drive safe.. and don't drink and drive.

The driver will be charge under Akta Keselamatan Jalan Raya for memandu secara merbahaya hingga menyebabkan kematian

Most likely he'll go to jail...serves him right.

wait for the police to finish the kertas siasatan

Rest in Peace...

Worry not, for the departed are no longer in pain but at peace.

Takes years for the case to settle. Like the case in PJ, section 14. Car jumped kerb and killed someone at a mamak. Still on appeal, I think.

uu knw them de ar? this is very saddening =(

most likely criminal case alone will take around 5 yrs, civil case another 5 years...

adjournments, sisatan police, visit crime scene, etc...

each and everyday the parents will be reminded of their children';s loss either because being called up by the courts, lawyers or police...

there will be no closure until than...

and both sides will continue to live in pain and guilt for yrs to come.

This post has been edited by aurora97: Mar 16 2009, 05:49 PM

how fast what the car going?

80-100kmh?

RIP

Cant stop imagining myself swallowing glasses man

if simply hit from the side wont kill one. most probly the driver tekan emergency break and the car spun 180 deg and the entire back went underneath the lorry hitting the right hind first. see they cover the top of the car.

Yeah. Takes a long time.

There was a case, 4-5 years ago. Pajero or some 4-wheel drive, jumped across the highway and landed on the other side. Woman driver survived but she took out two guys. The guys were with the armed forces or something. Last I heard, she was charged but then no updates on the case. Or maybe just not reported. It takes a long time......too long.

i heard about this news in newspaper...

condolence to your friend...

wtf WHAT KIND OF ENGLISH IS THAT NOOD...WAN WHAT
RIP for the dead,and for the person who said close your mouth in a car accident,I'm pretty sure people tend to scream with their mouths wide open,ouch glass of all things

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YY4hICSiRa4

This post has been edited by Denzy: Mar 16 2009, 06:09 PM

It's not the speed that kills.

Guys rarely scream when there's an accident going to happen. They just open thier eyes wide and juz an F word. Then pray. Then f word x 9000 if you still survive.

can get a summary .. meru first post too long and im confused with a b c d ..

accident happen, people died...?

Two persons died and two survived. Others who weren't in the accident were too stunned and shocked.

Cause of accident, likely to be speeding; the driver survived.

My blessing to the departed,
may their soul find peace and love in each other

PS: Driver dont speed! the road its not a stadium for you to speed F1 style

The Star failed big time.

That's a Honda City. It was captioned Honda Civic.

f***en Malaysian media.

Are you somewhat holy?

Old Honda Civic?

So obvious that's a Honda City. The tag clearly says that.

Stupid MCA-controlled paper and their uninformed news.

its a city la ... see rim also know ... btw the driver sure kena 99 lol

ok ok city city. chill. that's really besides the story.....

I find it amuzing the questions posed...

btw whats the pt of knowing what car was driven, how many pieces of glass the victim ate, what rim size, what degree the car spun...

i mean wtf?

Because we really don't see the point of this thread.

We all know stupidity behind the wheel kills. Do you?

aurora was the driver ??

one thing for sure its kopitiam, ok fine everyone post all kinds of random articles...

for that matter there is no "Restart" buttons in life, if u done something wrong, it becoems history 5 mins after that. Basically if the person is smart he learns from it.

If a person dies, its a lesson for others, there is no second chances... the guilt, pain and suffering the living will have to endure.

fetch people oso speed zzz

I bet all of them will die if its a proton car...

RIP to the decrease

if it was a proton the lorry driver also die.

RIP!

at least u know how they die...

i got a friend, suddenly faint and die juz like tat... dunno wat happen...

asked his family, they seems like hiding something dun wanna tell...

*sigh*

walao guys you should see this video. related to speeding

sudden death normally related to brain.

i dun think u should post their picture without permission from their parents . its quite pantang u know

RIP.

whos de gurl bside janice..? at de pict..?macam kenal jer...

RIP for the decease

i dun hope this kinda things happen to any of my fren
been always warn my fren never speed coz is dangerous!!

This is why.....even if im piss drunk, hurrying lik mad, upset, pissed, whatever, I never speed when others are sitting in the car with me. If I'm gonna kill someone with my speeding, its only gonna be me.

Obviously you haven't gotten drunk enough.

On a totally unrelated note, I saw a drunkard last Saturday, he was using the urinal and he started puking. He spent the next 2 hours kneeling on the floor of the toilet, with his face PLANTED in the urinal.

Now, try telling him not to speed.

I usually wait until I am sober then only I drive. This might entail sitting for an hour or two something or in the car.

i supporting suiteng the tom boy style!!

Speeding is not necessarily related to drunkenness. Although yes, alcohol makes us all think we have a 10" dong & make us do dumb things, it affects different ppl in diff ways. For all you know, that chap may have driven into a tree, but he might not have sped

RIP.

Speeding does not kill.

Stupidity does.