i know this guy for a year plus. never meet before but keep close contact by phone, sms and chats. last week i went to his state and meet up with him. we agreed to meet at lunch time but he came 2 hour earlier and bring me breakfast! he bring his laptop and we talk and watch movie together. he somehow hug me and all of sudden he kiss my cheek! i just laugh but actually he make my heart beat fast! then we continue to watch but for no reason we starting to kiss and make out. He was nervous and we did it very fast. From that he hug me tightly and hold my hand. kiss me quite often and my cheek too. i felt that suddenly we are so close and been a couple for long time. its a sweet moment but it doesnt stop there. we went to the beach and sat down together. he hold my hand and being so sweet. he was so caring and sweet. for the moment i thought he love me. we did everything couple would do when together.. but somehow he said we're adult and if both willing to do then its fine. he had a bad love relation before. Somehow he told me he is a bad guy and doesnt want a relation now. he is used to be single and want freedom. i've fallen deeply in love with him but when he said this i was so sad. does he love me? im confused!

p/s: please ignore my english grammar. im not very good in english. sorry

did this guy do anything further than kissing you...i.e intimate things

as i say we did what couples would do

that mean he have sex with you... is it

yeah

oh...ok...allow me to answer this from a guy perspective

based on his situation, i guess he might be playing with you or just looking for sex perhaps. but i dared not confirm that, but i can said that he is a irresponsible person where after doing that with you and do not take you seriously and said don't want in relationship or what. that is just irresponsible and if he do not want you to be his GF then he should not do that to you...what i said is just opinion...it might not be true...if you need anyone to talk to, can always PM me or msn ya 

u can point out your opinion here. im down anyway

when u mention that u go to his country.. which country is it exactly?

hurm.. how long have u noe him until u decided to see him?

well my dear, this is what they said about blind date.. dont take it seriously..

i understand that u were down, but be strong, maybe u deserve better guy