hmmm somehow, i think n00b13's thread pwn this one.

this thread

just playing around with below average wordings la.. of course not straight away like that..

just my tought here -

why not bring not bring the confession part to a whole new level
where no one has anything to lose
because as far as i know relationship should be fun not just serious commitment and understanding

let say you like a girl
you just let her know your feeling without requiring an answer
for example :
you :  hey, i kind of like you and i think it would be fun if you can be my gf

and then continue with your creativity but never force an answer from her, as this will take the presure off from her because if she doesn't like the idea she know that she can still be frens and comfortable with you

haven't been reading through the whole thread, just first post. want to get this off my chest, it hurts alot. i've known this wonderful girl for around two and a half years. during this time, she had a boyfriend but they had many breakup but would eventually get back together with him. anyways long story short, i sent her a letter, not asking her to be my gf, but asking her to reject me. it may seem weird, but frankly she's just too perfect for me and way out of my league, she deserves better. and also, i want to hear the no before i can finally move on, i cant live with this regret of not knowing her answer. and after that she's just so cold towards me. i used to talk to her quite often on msn, but now we never speak online or offline. it just hurts so badly, she's a really wonderful friend too and i risked everything for my own stupid blind ambition. it's like we are strangers now, from friends to strangers overnight. and im so scared to see her IRL too, i just dont know how i would react.

she had an on-off boyfriend then. i was chasing her for a few years already. i had to move on, she was affecting other aspects of my life. i didnt want to regret, but i also didnt want to put her in an awkward situation seeing as i love her as a friend too. so, i asked for a rejection. actually, what does it matter, she never read a goddamn word i wrote.