.This is the hardest part: “Measure” yourself thoroughly and be honest with it. Do you look pleasant enough in her eyes to be her EQUAL partner? Please forget nonsense like “beauty is in the eye of the Beholder”, because we are NOT the Beholder. Human beings are superficial creature and it’s the inevitable truth. 90% of the women who rejected me, it was because of my looks. They’ve said otherwise but I know better. I see the mirror everyday for Heaven’s sake !