what about aftermath for a girl to confess..?

Do you imagine that every adult has been beaten down and defeated by life in order to live a grim existence?

You obviously do not know many successful, happy, balanced people.
I don't know who this Morrie person is, or why this story is so great. It is probably false. In real life he would probably have paper cups thrown at his head, minimum.

I could probably write a dozen other real stories where people had to really DO OR DIE - trying or not - but what is the point?

Primacy is an easy choice for people with drive an ambition to make when the alternative is mediocrity. The point is for most people being the BEST at whatever it is THEY want to do, getting the most out of whatever life it is THEY want to live is just too difficult for them, so they just settle for the middle ground. They'll float above mediocrity and they'll struggle against the waves, but they'll do only just that. I think THAT is the real waste of human dreams, hopes and ambitions - that they be relegated entirely to fantasy, and wilful naivety.

EVERY post that silverhawk and the contra camp has made here would point people towards a better, more rewarding future filled with better interactions with women. It is sad for me to see that people would rather cling to emotional riots and fantastical daydreams than face up to reality to get what they truly deserve.

Let me tell you something... when you meet a girl and she really likes you back, it is hell of a lot better than clinging to the UBERLAME concept of "confessing", agonising over it, and then living in fear or rejection or in the long shadow of its past.

telling u from my experience, girls for some stupid reason always reply sms or calls for the first 2 days, then they will avoid if they're not interested~ I can't help but ask why can't they just say no the first day, the first moment we met?~

Oh why didn't I read this thread sooner?? I agree with everything