Ladylui! your idea is perfect, i have never come across such a person as you who considers for the death... the same thing happened my death father.. but here's my little suggestion, would you be interested in sponsoring an orphanage or donating for the living? you can visit us at http://theraingamenterprise.webs.com , If anyone who is found interested with an orphanage, please contact us.. all kinds of donations are excepted from clothes to used computers, from coins to cash.. Thanks..