sorry to hear abt u TS, but as a guy, i strongly stand up on the side of building career instead of hunting after girls. Cash is an important factor in relationships no matter what ppl say, but if it breaks down due to cash, well so what?

If you were jobless, yes thats a problem. If you have a stable job, please ignore the extremely materialistic ones of the opposite sex, unless u have a real desire (obsession) to impress, which means u need to be rich, filthy rich.