well... sorry but i gotta say dat she made right choice... at times... no, at all times, we are being measured and judged by others. she has to give such a judgment considering d parents need to answer d relatives n friends "bombardment". anyhow take dis as a lesson n improve urself. read more n understand wut d rich men are doin.
nonetheless, i agree with nigelhanzo, that i would prefer an independent gf. though i get bombard here n there frm my gal friends dat my thinking is not "applicable". well, they hav their right to choose a man who will shower them with gifts.
independent gf can mean they r confident in doin things of man's domain like changing a flat tyre? any gals wif dat kinda confident, dun look anywhere, im looking for u... confidence is sexy to me

another advice, join toastmasters.... i assume ur not confident enuf in ur interview... dun tell me dat ur grades sux... mine is 2.37 n i got a job which im happy to hav. i think its more on ur presentation. in my previous co, my coleage used 2 hav a gf... d gf got a job in schlumberger n he has 2 call her his ex. he worked n stil works in d my ex-co. now u tell me, u've been jobless for 1 year... THAT IS SERIOUS my dear, if im d gf, i ll leave once my bf cant secure a proper n steady job 6 months after grad. so... bro, buck up.

if all those things are hard 2 digest... u gotta digest dis my fren

In this free world, everyone has the right to have their happiness. Don't blame other guys who wish to go after your ex (then gf). That is their right. What is her right then? is to choose the best among the lot. You appeared to be the best but that was the past. It is her right to choose the best even though she is married to you. What is YOUR right then? is to improve yourself and go chase you dream. Income is just indirectly helps you in getting a gf, if directly, might as well get a Viet chic (they are HAWT!)

what type of pills are u taking? tranquiliser? make u dependent on it? Feeling dependent on drugs is nothing more than being addicted. do some other things rather than taking pills

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Added on September 30, 2009, 10:32 pmwell, if d bf has secured a comfy job n d gf left him just bcoz others hav bangalow n bmw by d age of 30, then d gf s kinda materialitic la. but in TS's case... i think most of the gal will leave... no such thing as "got love drink water to fill d stomach"

有情饮水饱，
爱情不能当饭吃，
爱情当饭吃也吃不饱。

This post has been edited by endau02: Sep 30 2009, 10:32 PM