What I feel is that she been exposed to too many people without even a little controlled (pergaulan bebas)..Maybe that made her changed her heart (spanared?). In short term its okay, but in a long term especially she is meeting every kind of men WITHOUT your knowledge then it will bring harmful things into the relationship..

"Sikit-sikit lama lama jadi bukit".


I enjoy reading the days that your gf and you had gone though during university life.. all the time spend on traveling, and so on. Its so sweet.


The "spanar" or "breakup" problem will happen , when she found someone and compare him with you. IF that guy is better than you in every aspect, (such as high income while no need to work much, or a CEO or manager got big income driving BMW, low profile and not ego, very gentleman, romantic , know how to treat a girl good) .. The girl WILL start to doubt their existing relationship, they might think the NEW someone can give her a better life, fresher things, and love her more compare with you WITHOUT recall back the sweet memories that you guys had gone thru. I think this happen because you are letting herself go into her private life too much without respecting the existing relationship.


Alright, make an assumption if this case happen to the girls. The bf of the girl has a very stable income, own something big and meet a new girl outside work. Try to image the existing girl just graduated and has so-so income but still trying to work hard to save up $$ but the new girl is very feminine, got a good income, like to make you a hero, very beautiful and very cute and you like her very much. What will happen if the bf is a player(sounds like materialistic girl) ? You knew it.


IF you have tried doing your best when you are graduated and work hard BUT yet your salary still there and she leave you BECAUSE of that.. Have no regret. You done nothing wrong, but it is because she is too materialistic.

I believe that nothing is absolute in this world, things always change except true love in the old days and rarely today..

Have patience in yourself, there might be a sudden change in your life and become even better Stay strong!